(January 3, 2013 at 12:48 pm)paulpablo Wrote:Quote:But people all make mistakes and they can seek repentance from Allah and say sorry, say they will never do it again, stay away from it and do some good stuff and he will forgive them.
This maybe the case for someone who has a moment of temptation or a night of temptation but im saying what about muslims who have girlfriends before marriage, i personally cant understand the repenting part of basically making a commitment to sin.
And you say this is basically down to a person being raised within the religion by parents yet possibly not understanding it fully does this mean you plan to not have a girlfriend in the near future?
Will the next person you have sex with be your wife in your mind?
Bare in mind ive also read some verses of the quran that are understood to mean masterbation is haram.
Are you married? do you plan to get married? Sorry for the crude way of putting this but if you arent married or planning on getting married how are you going to cope with having balls like melons?
1. Im not saying it because of them being raised. Something like this has to many variables to nail it down to one course and every persons situation is different.
2. By the repenting thing i meant was if they fault bad they could ask for forgiveness
Obviously its religion so is open to interpretation maybe your friend interpretates it that it is ok to have a girlfriend or sex before marriage.
Insha'allah (God Willing) the next person i have sex with will be my wife. I'm not married but planning to get married hopefully soon. Probs when im over 18 then wont require my parents consent.
Lmao balls like melons
. Sexual desires can be controlled, allot harder in a western society, but can be controlled.
In Islam if you have sexual desires then the best advice is to try and get married. If not then fast as it lowers your sexual desire. However for some people it increases it lol.
Personally i plan to have a wife in the near future.
