Has anyone ever found a way to reconsile being Gay/Bi/Lesbien and being a Christian?

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If you ignore what paul says about it, then homosexuality can still be identified as a sin. why? Simply put the NT tells us that any sex, even the thought of it outside the confines of a Santified marriage is a sin. A sin like anyother. It is not the unforgivable sin it is not the sin that some how ranks higher than all others, it is a sin. One we need repent of, to find forgiveness.

Oh, so we gents who occasionally partake in some man-loving should just feel guilty in general rather than specifically at the man love? Wow, that's so much better!

Fascinatingly though, you've not actually changed the premises of anything, since there's still quite a large religiously motivated push to prevent gays from ever getting these "Santified marriages," and even if the law was changed, I've no doubt that some would argue those gay marriages still wouldn't be holy. Not wanting to make assumptions I have to ask: are you one of them?