Has anyone ever found a way to reconsile being Gay/Bi/Lesbien and being a Christian?

[Drich]

Oh, so we gents who occasionally partake in some man-loving should just feel guilty in general rather than specifically at the man love? Wow, that's so much better!
Fascinatingly though, you've not actually changed the premises of anything, since there's still quite a large religiously motivated push to prevent gays from ever getting these "Santified marriages,"

That is because thier isn't a santified pretext in which two men can get married. Which in of itself makes Homosexuality a sin.

and even if the law was changed, I've no doubt that some would argue those gay marriages still wouldn't be holy.

Nope, because their is not a biblical example of a homosexual relationship having ever been santified by God.

Not wanting to make assumptions I have to ask: are you one of them?

Them what? We all know your a bigot, so just "come out" and say what you mean.