Question about female worth in islam.

[Zen Badger]

As it does any man wishing to control their partner by coercion or force.

Because your marriage system is different than Islamic one.

In Islam it is the same like any other successful system in the world (even yours) it is hierarchical i.e. a boss and subordinates under him

All systems in the world is like that (Political, business, sports, etc.)
The Islamic model is based on that models
Your system is based on nothing!

I had many American friends that they wised to have marriage like the Islamic ones (where wives obey their husbands)

No dickhead, it is based on the understanding that two people in a relationship are equal. With equal responsibilities and rights in that relationship.

You on the other hand, would advocate for a system where the woman is a virtual slave to the husband.

Fuck that pal. And fuck you and your slimy,evil,paedophile prophet.