"Homosexuality is a choice" and its paradox

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Sadly when I was a theist I defend this notion. And often times used it to help boost my own internal will power to fight my bisexual nature. At the moment of puberty I always had an appeal to both sexes, this clashed with my faith a lot and I would often times would suppress them. So in short I know you are either born that way, or certain environmental stimuli shapes you that way. Since I am not a neurologist I cannot make the assertion either way.

It's not a binary opposition. There can be a combination of genetic and environmental factors.

Yea, I did not mean for it sound black and white. When I finally came to terms with my own sexuality it was after taking a test. It basically was a series of questions that measured this on a scale. I will make a quick edit, kinda what I meant to say.