To what extent is a rape victim responsible for the crime?

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But only he can identify as a woman - nobody else decides a person's gender identification but themselves.

Dude, that's not the point, I really don't care. He can scream "I'm a man" as much as he wants as prisoners run a train on him.
You dwell on my word games, while missing my point.

And my point was not that men are met with more violence - but how we treat a crime that occurs primarily to men versus women.

Well, not in the same way, obviously. Men and women are born with different characteristics, and similarly, crimes perpetrated by men and women against the opposite sexes is different.
You treat them based on these differences.