(October 9, 2013 at 10:44 am)whateverist Wrote:(October 9, 2013 at 10:11 am)festive1 Wrote: The flag means less to me than the ideals it represents. Being that America purports to hold those ideals, yet reality is something quite different, it's very hypocritical. In addition, the people who seem hellbent on holding the country back from becoming everything the symbol stands for, wrap themselves in a blanket of patriotism and, literally, the flag. It's sick how people use patriotism. It's dangerous. I'm not fussed about the flag, they can keep it. I just want the execution of the ideals, which are hard to find here, because they've been bought and sold. They are separate things, ideals and symbols. They are not interchangeable. One has far more actual value and weight than the other. We can make the flag a giant pile of poo on a white background... whatever, I'm good, so long as America actually IS what it pretends to be, which we're not. America is a big, stupid bully, both on the international stage and to it's own citizens. I'm sick of it, and frustrated there's not a whole hell of a lot I can do about it.
My self serving preference would be for you to stick around and help hold the line against the massive throng of stupid in this country. Can't blame you though if you prefer a different life. We're staying but then we're in a very blue state and I think you're in a red one. Can't blame you for being uncomfortable stuck behind enemy lines.
Maryland is Purple, trending Blue. It's the proximity to DC and crazy people the rest of the country sends here.
Just for clarification, I would love to go elsewhere. My husband would never leave. I'm not going to leave my husband or take our kids and move to a foreign country. I'm speaking in theory when I say I'm leaving. In reality, I'm staying... Slightly against my personal wishes, but there you have it. But I will bitch about it to no end.