I'm not sure if there are forms of psychotherapy which could help with his issues .. which I assume come down to guilt around receiving (and therefore giving) pleasure. He is lucky to have such an understanding and loving partner. However I worry about the long term health of your relationship if he doesn't get this together. Will you always be okay with it being an issue even after the hormonally supported romantic phase fades? I've heard it said that everyone has problems but it is important for a relationship to be with someone whose problems you find interesting or at least respect. If your concept of being in a committed relationship boils down to having sex with just one person, as callous as it sounds to say, I wonder if you shouldn't wait to see how this works out .. for your own sake?
Jesus, no wonder Min hates the church so much. Holy rollers with a whip. I'd hate them too.
(November 19, 2013 at 10:38 pm)Zazzy Wrote: My father had to do years of therapy to recover, and he STILL isn't right. But then nuns beat him terribly as a child. I don't know how other people get over it, but I know that my father has never entirely gotten over it. The man sees a nun and gets vomity.
Jesus, no wonder Min hates the church so much. Holy rollers with a whip. I'd hate them too.
