God says “Love me or die”

[Zen Badger]

You forgot to include the nature of God to keep belief in him a choice.

And when we exercise our free will and choose not to believe in him we are condemmed for eternity.

There has never been validatable proof for this very reason. If miracles can be observed they can only be verified by the individual and believers and never outside that. It's frustrating for you but that's the truth of it.

So god will only manifest his miracles to those who already believe,

For an entity that you have previously claimed is undefinable you seem to know

an awful lot about his motivations.