(January 18, 2014 at 11:20 pm)Esquilax Wrote:(January 18, 2014 at 11:15 pm)là bạn điên Wrote: You do have a point here and if a woman was publicly a sub to a man then you would have the Loony-feminists screaming the place down (they are incredibly intolerant of anything other than strict gay or strict hetero and discriminate against bisexual and transgendered people.
There's a bigger problem than that, there: to the untrained eye, a submissive woman could easily look like one in an abusive relationship. Especially with the bruises that sometimes come along with kink.
Hell, I've had people call it abuse even when they've had the circumstances fully explained to them. It's sad.
I'm not sure its appropriate that sexual play need have a public dimension. Gay people have been subject to abuse for holding hands in public or for kissing in Public -something that doesn't happen for gay people. BDSM is something people do and doesn't go to the root of identity as homosexuality does. Straight BDSM people can hold hands or kiss in public with no issues.
