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Why do you make such a big deal out of it?
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Why do you make such a big deal out of it?
My brother is a relaxed person when it comes to his non-belief. He rarely finds the need to say anything or even relate every day experiences to it. On the other hand, my family describes me as an atheist activist in the making. We drink coffee and talk for hours when my brother visits. He asked me the other day. "Why do you feel the need to make your non-belief such a big deal? Why did you start a group? Why do you search for other groups so you could introduce your own?" Well, in other words. He also said, "You don't go around talking about how you don't have a thing for dolphins. Isn't your lack of faith in a god the same thing? There's nothing there, so why talk about it?"

Simple.

Religion has contaminated my space.

My son has felt anxiety in school and at family events due to discrimination. He has been bullied by his aunts and cousins (dad's side of the family) for not wanting to pray and hold a candle. He was told by a teacher that Jesus would come back and the world would end. It's this simple. People need to mind their own business. Religion needs to stay the fuck out of our schools and government. Period. I will speak up and I will promote awareness as long as I feel this place is good enough for my kids to feel free to believe, or not believe. I will speak up until people can marry freely. I will not just sit there and do nothing. I will be an example to my kids. They will learn that they do not have to take bullshit and say "thank you".

It's not just my space, either. It's not just the space of atheists that is being bothered. If you are not a part of the majority, you're screwed.

https://www.aclu.org/blog/religion-belie...-christian

Quote:My stepson started at Negreet in the same class as one of my children. By the end of the first week of school, he was having serious stomach issues and anxiety. We couldn't figure out why. In the mornings, my wife would pull over on the side of the road as they approached school so he could throw up. At first, we thought he was sick and we let him stay home. Soon it became apparent that this was not a cold, but something much worse. Our children informed us that their teacher had been chastising and bullying my stepson for his Buddhist beliefs.

The rest of that article makes me all kinds of angry.

Why make it such a big deal? Because it is a big deal. Stop contaminating my space.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked

"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
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Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Fruity - January 24, 2014 at 8:01 pm
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Shaggy - January 24, 2014 at 8:14 pm
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Fruity - January 24, 2014 at 10:03 pm
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Fruity - January 25, 2014 at 8:23 pm
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Shaggy - January 25, 2014 at 11:07 pm
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Fruity - January 25, 2014 at 11:33 pm
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by WesOlsen - January 26, 2014 at 4:50 am
RE: Why do you make such a big deal out of it? - by Fruity - January 27, 2014 at 5:21 pm

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