I think your over looking a bigger issue. If this girl was wanting to leave her father and cleave to you, nothing he could say or do would change that. She is with him because she does not want to be with you more. Boat, job, car, house... This crap does not make a man a man. Integrity makes a man a man. Just by what I've seen here with you wanting the members to make this man out to be a racist just on your say so, and because you did not get what you want. shows a very sharp lack of integrity. If she grew up in the faith this is the quality she most likely sees in her father and does not see in you. Which is why she sided with him and not with someone who is hell bent on fulfilling a dishonorable stereotype.
If you grew up and learned to act honorably, maybe she would see the quality in you that is keeping her by her father's side.
If you grew up and learned to act honorably, maybe she would see the quality in you that is keeping her by her father's side.
