What do believers say when you ask or tell them..

[Violet]

Thank you SAE,

That was kind of you. I know I appear nutty. If it's any consolation, some of you'se look crazy to me... I am not here like Dave Mabus. I don't know if I am sexually repressed. I have never been tender with a woman, but I am OK with that. Surely my dislike of adult entertainment doesn't count as repression?

It should be noted that the below are only possibilities I see some reason to believe.

Dislike of porn could perhaps very loosely count as repression... but by sexually repressed I meant dually that you "have never been tender with a woman" (And are 'subdued' in your desire to be so, assuming of course you have said desire.)... and also that it may be that your hormones have been repressed by means unknown to me.

"I have never been tender with a woman" Interestingly... neither have I. But I would like to. I am prevented from doing so by both my current body and other circumstances <-- This would be a mild example of what I mean by repression. To repress is simply to 'subdue' by 'force'. Reality represses a blind man's efforts to see (in the first sense I intended). In this sense too... I am rather sexually repressed by the state of my body. It would be a repression if indeed you want to "be tender" with a woman as you would like (say a girlfriend or wife as apposed to a whore, not to suggest said girlfriend or wife is not a whore ) but circumstances are set in a way that this is impossible (as of yet).

Regarding the second possible form of your apparent sexual repression... it may be possible that as you developed into the person you are today, you had intense negative experiences regarding sex... which eventually (a la shock therapy or Pavlov's dog) made you associate sex with said negative experiences... perhaps even suppressing your sexual desires.

I though bisexuality meant you absolutely had to have sex with men. It doesn't even matter what gender you are, the 'bi' part of it would have to include males. I thought about being gay for a while, but decided god just might smite me for it... Pascals gay wager? Now that's funny

All bisexuality means is that one is both androphiliac and gynophiliac. I can be an androphiliac man and still have sex with women... just as I can be a gynophiliac woman and have sex with men.