Damn girl... I know I told to give us all the sordid details, but I never expected something like this!
As long as that person is in your mother's life, you'll find it hard to completely shut him off.
You can ask your mother to do it too, but geographic proximity makes that a potential trouble spot... I'd the guy does indeed go on some rage drunk bloodthirsty ride when people cut him off...
Family is difficult.
You can try to stay away...and one day move indeed away and be freed from that toxicity.
As for your mother...try to make her see that he's toxic.
As long as that person is in your mother's life, you'll find it hard to completely shut him off.
You can ask your mother to do it too, but geographic proximity makes that a potential trouble spot... I'd the guy does indeed go on some rage drunk bloodthirsty ride when people cut him off...
Family is difficult.
You can try to stay away...and one day move indeed away and be freed from that toxicity.
As for your mother...try to make her see that he's toxic.
