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Ever Feel Guilty?
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RE: Ever Feel Guilty?
(February 26, 2014 at 4:11 pm)ThePinsir Wrote: I've discussed religion (or lack of) with plenty of people IRL. A lot of people, after talking to me, say something like "I'm starting to question things now" or "I've never thought of it like that!", etc.

I don't actively TRY to "deconvert" people, but might be doing it anyway. My thing is I sometimes feel like I'm pulling people from their ignorant bliss. And I usually feel a little bad about it. Like...it's hard to describe. I'm glad they're finally thinking for themselves, but sad because I'm kind of forcing them to doubt what they've held to be true their whole lives. I went through it, and I know it can be rough.

I feel like a lot of the people I talk to aren't well prepared and don't really know how to debate, so I also feel kind of condescending when I try to explain my atheism. Not ALL the time, but with my mom for example. She's always been religious, and in the month since I "came out", she told me she doesn't know what to believe anymore. I'm happy...but kind of sad that she's sad. Or something.

Do you guys ever have any reservations when you effectively "un-indoctrinate" someone?

No. Ignorance is not bliss.
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Ever Feel Guilty? - by ThePinsir - February 26, 2014 at 4:11 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Mr. Moncrieff - February 26, 2014 at 4:30 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Napoléon - February 26, 2014 at 4:39 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Nine - February 26, 2014 at 4:51 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by FreeTony - February 26, 2014 at 4:40 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by fr0d0 - March 22, 2014 at 2:15 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Nine - February 26, 2014 at 4:42 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Jacob(smooth) - February 26, 2014 at 4:49 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by FreeTony - February 26, 2014 at 4:50 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Ryantology - February 26, 2014 at 4:59 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Clueless Morgan - February 26, 2014 at 5:22 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Bad Writer - February 27, 2014 at 9:04 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by SteelCurtain - February 26, 2014 at 6:26 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - February 26, 2014 at 6:38 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Mudhammam - February 27, 2014 at 8:29 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Mudhammam - March 12, 2014 at 1:13 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Fromper - February 27, 2014 at 4:57 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by OfMiceAndMen - March 11, 2014 at 6:01 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by The Valkyrie - March 11, 2014 at 6:03 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by thesummerqueen - March 11, 2014 at 6:16 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Minimalist - March 11, 2014 at 6:33 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Jovanian Teapot - March 11, 2014 at 7:16 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by fr0d0 - March 11, 2014 at 7:48 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Jovanian Teapot - March 11, 2014 at 8:00 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by fr0d0 - March 12, 2014 at 3:43 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Angrboda - March 11, 2014 at 7:50 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by thesummerqueen - March 11, 2014 at 8:41 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Minimalist - March 11, 2014 at 11:01 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by psychoslice - March 12, 2014 at 1:22 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by kılıç_mehmet - March 12, 2014 at 3:06 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Mr. Moncrieff - March 12, 2014 at 3:15 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by heathendegenerate - March 12, 2014 at 1:08 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Manowar - March 14, 2014 at 3:45 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by tor - March 14, 2014 at 4:06 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Silver - March 15, 2014 at 1:12 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by *Deidre* - March 15, 2014 at 3:14 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Phatt Matt s - March 22, 2014 at 7:10 am
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Angrboda - March 22, 2014 at 12:17 pm
RE: Ever Feel Guilty? - by Phatt Matt s - March 22, 2014 at 5:08 pm

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