To those who were once believers and are now atheists, some advice?

[*Deidre*]

I lost only one friend and admittedly, it was sad.
But what does the loss of that friend tell you? It tells me that worshiping a god is more important than following the example of that god. Now what does that tell you? It tells me that my friendship was always conditional and thus ... sadly, expendable.

You see the truth is, true friendship would go far beyond a belief structure and the proof of this is that even I, a vocal objector to religion, have many good friends who can serve their silly god and still call me friend.

Now I look back on the friend I lost and realize that his friendship towards me was never anything more than self-serving and upon that reflection, I feel happiness in the fact that I have left the darkness behind.

So, you both never caught back up again? What made u feel that the friendship was self serving, if I may ask? I'm just trying to process this last friend of mine ending our friendship. Her words were "I don't know you anymore."

I just want to stop hurting over it.