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Friends trying to 'save' me
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RE: Friends trying to 'save' me
(March 23, 2014 at 4:44 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: OGirly, while you're trying extra hard to be polite, she is being extremely rude. You've told her you don't want to go, but she keeps bugging you about it.

You don't need to tip toe around her. You need to firmly state: "I have told you countless times I do not want to go to church. If you would like to continue our friendship, you will not disrespect me or my decisions by constantly countering them, because true friends accept each other for who they are. I haven't asked you to give up your religion."

Or something to that effect.

Well, strictly speaking, the friend is doing her religious duty by inviting her friend to attend church services. If her friend doesn't want to go that's fine. However at that point the church- goer is directed by Christian doctrine to end her friendship with the person.

People end friendships all the time for any number of reasons. Some things are not negotiable.
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Friends trying to 'save' me - by OGirly - March 23, 2014 at 3:48 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Chad32 - March 23, 2014 at 3:52 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by OGirly - March 23, 2014 at 3:56 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by SteelCurtain - March 23, 2014 at 3:55 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by OGirly - March 23, 2014 at 3:57 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by tor - March 23, 2014 at 3:57 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by *Deidre* - March 23, 2014 at 3:57 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by *Deidre* - March 23, 2014 at 4:03 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by FlyingNarwhal - March 23, 2014 at 4:35 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by rexbeccarox - March 23, 2014 at 4:44 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by FlyingNarwhal - March 23, 2014 at 5:01 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Cinjin - March 23, 2014 at 5:11 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by The Valkyrie - March 23, 2014 at 5:14 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Cato - March 23, 2014 at 9:12 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Wyrd of Gawd - March 24, 2014 at 1:50 am
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by sven - March 23, 2014 at 4:56 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Minimalist - March 23, 2014 at 5:28 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by xr34p3rx - March 23, 2014 at 5:35 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Rahul - March 23, 2014 at 6:18 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Chad32 - March 23, 2014 at 6:59 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Rahul - March 23, 2014 at 8:21 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by CapnAwesome - March 23, 2014 at 8:33 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by SteelCurtain - March 23, 2014 at 10:10 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Alex K - March 24, 2014 at 6:07 am
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Silver - March 24, 2014 at 10:55 am
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Esquilax - March 24, 2014 at 11:39 am
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by OGirly - March 24, 2014 at 3:38 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Chad32 - March 24, 2014 at 1:28 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by Tonus - March 24, 2014 at 2:05 pm
RE: Friends trying to 'save' me - by heathendegenerate - March 25, 2014 at 7:44 pm

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