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Friends with benefits?
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RE: Friends with benefits?
I have had two FWB situations in my lifetime, but they were not with close friends. Actually, both evolved out of relationships. IMO, it works as long as it's not the first time you've had sex with that person. The passion of a new love affair can be infectious, and one person is going to develop feelings, almost as a rule. One of you will get jealous when the other person starts dating someone, there will be awkward conversations on how to end it when you don't want to end it, there will be weird situations when the sex is more love-makey than screwy and you start to wonder wether that means something. It's just a lot of trouble and weird stuff to deal with, and even though it can be great sex, it messes with your mind.
"There remain four irreducible objections to religious faith: that it wholly misrepresents the origins of man and the cosmos, that because of this original error it manages to combine the maximum servility with the maximum of solipsism, that it is both the result and the cause of dangerous sexual repression, and that it is ultimately grounded on wish-thinking." ~Christopher Hitchens, god is not Great

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Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 8:06 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by kaamil20 - March 27, 2014 at 8:20 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by tor - March 27, 2014 at 8:22 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Losty - March 27, 2014 at 8:27 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by sven - March 27, 2014 at 9:18 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 8:46 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by sven - March 27, 2014 at 9:02 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by No_God - March 27, 2014 at 8:25 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Fidel_Castronaut - March 27, 2014 at 8:27 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 8:32 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by FlyingNarwhal - March 27, 2014 at 8:55 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Tonus - March 27, 2014 at 10:05 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Whateverist - March 27, 2014 at 10:31 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 11:38 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by SteelCurtain - March 27, 2014 at 10:41 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 10:42 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - March 27, 2014 at 10:52 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Silver - March 27, 2014 at 11:31 am
Friends with benefits? - by Rampant.A.I. - March 27, 2014 at 11:39 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Angrboda - March 27, 2014 at 11:52 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 12:13 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Fruity - March 27, 2014 at 12:14 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 12:20 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by paulpablo - March 27, 2014 at 12:34 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by ShaMan - March 27, 2014 at 8:54 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 27, 2014 at 9:01 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 9:02 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 27, 2014 at 9:05 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 9:18 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Bittersmart - March 27, 2014 at 9:18 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by ShaMan - March 27, 2014 at 9:22 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 9:23 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Bittersmart - March 27, 2014 at 9:47 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 27, 2014 at 9:24 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by BrokenQuill92 - March 27, 2014 at 9:52 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mudhammam - March 27, 2014 at 9:51 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Rahul - March 27, 2014 at 9:52 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 9:59 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mudhammam - March 27, 2014 at 10:17 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 27, 2014 at 10:20 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 10:20 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by GirlyMan - March 27, 2014 at 10:25 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Losty - March 27, 2014 at 10:30 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Rev. Rye - March 27, 2014 at 10:38 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 10:46 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Cinjin - March 27, 2014 at 11:02 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 27, 2014 at 11:09 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Bittersmart - March 27, 2014 at 11:42 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Esquilax - March 28, 2014 at 2:22 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by max-greece - March 28, 2014 at 2:24 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 30, 2014 at 4:38 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Phatt Matt s - March 30, 2014 at 4:15 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 30, 2014 at 4:39 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Shaggy - March 30, 2014 at 5:03 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 30, 2014 at 5:17 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by LastPoet - March 30, 2014 at 5:26 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 30, 2014 at 5:33 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by sven - March 30, 2014 at 5:49 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 30, 2014 at 6:07 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Phatt Matt s - March 30, 2014 at 6:23 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 30, 2014 at 7:04 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by sven - March 30, 2014 at 7:18 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by MJ the Skeptical - March 30, 2014 at 5:24 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 30, 2014 at 5:49 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Rahul - March 30, 2014 at 8:42 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 30, 2014 at 9:32 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - March 30, 2014 at 9:56 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 30, 2014 at 10:27 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Phatt Matt s - March 30, 2014 at 10:40 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 31, 2014 at 9:06 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Ayen - March 31, 2014 at 9:12 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 31, 2014 at 12:01 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by MJ the Skeptical - March 31, 2014 at 12:06 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by NoraBrimstone - March 31, 2014 at 3:19 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by LastPoet - March 31, 2014 at 3:27 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - March 31, 2014 at 9:17 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Phatt Matt s - April 2, 2014 at 5:26 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 17, 2014 at 11:29 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - April 17, 2014 at 11:30 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Rahul - April 17, 2014 at 11:32 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by FlyingNarwhal - April 18, 2014 at 8:26 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by downbeatplumb - April 18, 2014 at 11:38 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - April 17, 2014 at 11:33 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Rahul - April 17, 2014 at 11:38 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 17, 2014 at 11:44 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by The Valkyrie - April 22, 2014 at 5:31 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by MJ the Skeptical - April 22, 2014 at 5:58 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 22, 2014 at 10:58 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by FlyingNarwhal - April 18, 2014 at 8:49 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Losty - April 28, 2014 at 2:00 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by FlyingNarwhal - April 18, 2014 at 9:21 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by FlyingNarwhal - April 18, 2014 at 9:32 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by FlyingNarwhal - April 18, 2014 at 10:17 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Vegamo - April 20, 2014 at 9:31 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 20, 2014 at 2:04 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Whateverist - April 20, 2014 at 2:51 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by CapnAwesome - April 23, 2014 at 4:55 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 25, 2014 at 11:21 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mystical - April 25, 2014 at 11:35 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - April 25, 2014 at 11:37 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by max-greece - April 25, 2014 at 12:45 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 25, 2014 at 1:03 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by max-greece - April 25, 2014 at 5:02 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mystical - April 25, 2014 at 5:19 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by *Deidre* - April 26, 2014 at 1:53 pm
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Phatt Matt s - April 28, 2014 at 1:18 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mystical - April 28, 2014 at 2:18 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Silver - April 28, 2014 at 2:20 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mystical - April 28, 2014 at 2:20 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Phatt Matt s - April 28, 2014 at 2:22 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Losty - April 28, 2014 at 2:41 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by Mystical - April 28, 2014 at 2:28 am
Re: RE: Friends with benefits? - by NoraBrimstone - April 28, 2014 at 5:42 am
RE: Friends with benefits? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - April 28, 2014 at 11:16 am

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