Friends with benefits?

[The Valkyrie]

I think, sometime, you just need to throw off your inhibitions and just have good, healthy sex with someone who is like minded.

I'm not necessarily talking about one-night-stands, although they can be fun (yes, I've had one after a breakup of a long-term relationship), or with some slobbering pervert.

I'm talking about some fun with a willing partner. Someone mutually in need of some fun that you've known for a while and trust.

If in honest, I still have hang ups about "casual sex." I took my pics down in the members photos thread FFS, because I thought they were too sexy. lol Residual hang ups from religion. But I'll get there.

Or I'll become a Mormon Fundamentalist. :p

Jk

You're very right and I'm envious that you have literally what seems to be the ideal situation going on in your own life. I'm happy for you. :-)

I honestly think the secret is to be yourself and do what you're comfortable with and don't let others pressure you into things you don't want to do.