(April 8, 2014 at 1:04 pm)Fromper Wrote:(April 7, 2014 at 10:14 am)Faith No More Wrote: If it was me personally, I would write a well-worded, profanity free message pointing out all of her flaws,everything wrong with what she's saying and what a terrible person she is for saying it, and then, in the final sentence, tell her "kindly go fuck yourself now."That would be my advice. Let her know that you won't tolerate this BS again, or else you WILL here it again.
If it was me.
I wouldn't tolerate that kind of bullshit from even my closest relative, and once you cross that line, the gloves are off.
(April 7, 2014 at 6:56 pm)Minimalist Wrote: Your choice....but be prepared for her to do it again. She is not going to change until you tell her off.She won't change after telling her off, either. But instead of saying these things to Losty's face and pissing her off again, the aunt will just talk about her behind her back. It's highly unlikely she'll change, though. But most can just be trained to pretend to be a better person, even if they're not.
After reading numerous stories from ex-christians I have found that sometimes a hard approach works. The aunt may not see that she is just using her religion as a lame excuse for bad behavior and just needs someone to point that out to her.
A mind is a terrible thing to waste -- don't pollute it with bullshit.