RE: What's Wrong With Me?
April 13, 2014 at 3:22 am
(This post was last modified: April 13, 2014 at 3:23 am by rexbeccarox.)
(April 13, 2014 at 3:05 am)Deidre32 Wrote: You sound like you're doing everything fine. No one is perfect. You, me, the guys we date...are all flawed. But, when someone just goes silent, I'm done. I do not give a fuck what their reason is, short of...they are stuck under a large object. Or died. Other than those reasons, if things are going 'well' between a guy and me, and he ignores me, DONE DONE DONE. I just broke up with a guy who would come forward, and then, I'd pull back (as I didn't trust him after all of his games) and then, he would pull back, I'd come forward.
NO MORE INSANITY.
If someone cares for you, truly cares for you...it will show in his natural course of actions. Ignoring you, without just cause, is bs. And I'd move on. You have done nothing wrong, just going by what you state here.
You deserve respect, and cutting you off, shows you a lack of respect. And if you tolerate it, it will send a message that you accept being disrespected, and then it will continue to happen.
We inadvertently teach people how to treat us, in the end. Sorry this keeps happening. I know the feeling.
Oh, you're absolutely right. I'm done. I don't tolerate that shit at all, ever. I'm just trying to figure out why it happens. In all of these cases, there was not only regular, but affectionate communication up until the freeze-out... that's what I find so odd: there has never been any indication that these guys were game-players.
(April 13, 2014 at 3:11 am)Cthulhu Dreaming Wrote: I've said before that nobody should ever take relationship advice from me. That hasn't changed. All I can offer is a hug.
Thanks Cthu
(April 13, 2014 at 3:16 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: I would offer advice but I'm 22. I know I'm too young and dumb to give love advice to anyone!
Sorry honey! Big hugs!
Thanks darlin'
