Why are you sad/mad/upset? (place to complain)

[Sedna]

Thanks guys

I think another important thing to note is that it can be quite fun and fulfilling to be single. I've spend quite a while being in various relationships and now have been single for a few months. It's great being able to make all my own decisions without considering someone else's feelings or opinions. Also it's fun to be able to flirt freely with a plethora of different people. Sometimes it's nice to be single.

I dunno, I guess I would be more free, but I kinda suck at flirting and what-not. It just doesn't sound that fun for me. I like having my life feel stable.

This seems incredibly selfish to me (on his part). Are you just supposed to wait around and hang on for him while he has time to find a better option? And if he can't then you're his best bet? Seems obvious to me from what you've said he's not committed to you, doesn't even seem like he can be arsed working it out with you. Fuck that guy. I wouldn't be waiting on him to 'make up his mind'.

Listen, my love, please please please do not stay with this person. Some guy who spent 4-5 years of their life with you, who is supposed to love you sends you a text that he is "considering" breaking up with you because he "might" like someone else? You text him back and tell him to feel free to fuck off. You are awesome! You don't need him, what you need is to pick your head up and realize that you are smart and fun and beautiful and perfectly capable of making friends and meeting new people. Hold your head up high, maybe work on your self esteem a little before getting into a new relationship. Hugs and love for you!

I dunno, I kind of feel like it's my fault for making him feel this way. I've been kind of distancing myself and we haven't been hanging out much. He's always been really committed and he's a nice guy, but he's really emotional. I don't know even really know what I'm trying to say...

I'm just kind of freaking out right now. I don't feel ready to deal with this