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Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
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Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 6:30 pm
Wife: That’s it! I’ve had it. I’ve given you the best twenty years of my life. I’ve done everything I know how to do, but you’re hopeless. You’ll never change.

Husband: I never asked you to change me.

And he walks out.

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When I was a teenager, my stepfather told me to accept a man as he is or leave him alone. That’s true. The only man a woman can ever change is her son, and that only up until he’s potty trained.


So what are you looking at:” a husband or a project?
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 6:38 pm
The opposite is true to me. We are meant to change and not remain in same state.
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 6:43 pm
(June 16, 2018 at 6:38 pm)MysticKnight Wrote: The opposite is true to me.  We are meant to change and not remain in same state.

Yes, but would you start dating someone with the expectation that they would change to suit your whims? Or just find someone who also suits you, and start dating that one?
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 6:44 pm
I agree with you Chad32 on that notion.
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 6:57 pm
(June 16, 2018 at 6:38 pm)MysticKnight Wrote: The opposite is true to me.  We are meant to change and not remain in same state.

True. I would hate to be the same person I was twenty years ago or think that I've exhausted my potential to improve myself. And that is the key. I change myself. I socialize with people who will help me be the person I want to become.

I would not disrespect another adult by demanding that he be what I want him to be.
The god who allows children to be raped out of respect for the free will choice of the rapist, but punishes gay men for engaging in mutually consensual sex couldn't possibly be responsible for an intelligently designed universe.

I may defend your right to free speech, but i won't help you pass out flyers.

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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 8:00 pm
No one wants to feel like a fixer-upper.  But over the course of 20 years, if the furniture's arranged the same way as it ever was, the paint's peeling, the mold's set in...nothing very attractive about that, either.
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 8:03 pm
(June 16, 2018 at 6:30 pm)Rhondazvous Wrote: Wife: That’s it! I’ve had it. I’ve given you the best twenty years of my life. I’ve done everything I know how to do, but you’re hopeless. You’ll never change.

Husband: I never asked you to change me.

And he walks out.

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When I was a teenager, my stepfather told me to accept a man as he is or leave him alone. That’s true. The only man a woman can ever change is her son, and that only up until he’s potty trained.


So what are you looking at:” a husband or a project?
Why did he need to change and who set the standard?
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 8:29 pm
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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 8:41 pm (This post was last modified: June 16, 2018 at 8:42 pm by ignoramus.)
Paul Newman said it right.
The trick is to grow and change together in the same direction.

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RE: Sad Scenario: Is He Your Husband or Your Project?
June 16, 2018 at 8:56 pm
Project husband for the first, sugar daddy for the second, hopeless now for the third.
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