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[Jacob(smooth)]

So I was talking to my friend Becky's ex because the stupid head is still in my Harry Potter fan club at the library. He says I'm overly perky to the point of creepy. Apparently my high-pitched chirpy voice hurts people's ears and my love of Loli-Goth clothes translates into weird porcelain doll look. Do you guys think I'm overly friendly?

Ah, Sheesh.

I forget what it's like to be young. Anyone who tells you its the best years of your life has their head up their ass.

Here's the question. Why do you think he told you that? Not why did he think that, but why share it with you?

Was it because he wants to help you? I seriously doubt it.

Little people love to drag bigger people Down to their level. What he means is "I'm a butt hurt slave to a sociological norm. I have to try to fit in to the glee club / high school musical / whatever stereotype and on some level I dispise myself for it. I sold out to fit in and STILL got dumped. You however don't appear to do that and that irks me because it highlights my own lack of personality. Plus your friend rejected me. Thus I'm going to try to make you feel bad about yourself. Also have a tiny penis"

Aside from the penis thing (probably true but less relevant) that's probably pretty close to the psychology...

Here's the thing quill. Your high pitched voice and loli goth clothes (no clue what that means btw) is YOU. So be you! If captain butt hurt doesn't like it tell him to go molest a cobra! What you will find is that there are people for all types of people. Seriously there are. It's better to be you and go find them than try to be someone else to fit with what someone else tells you you should be. Do that and guarantee you will make yourself miserable.

Short version, as min said, smile sweetly and tell him to go fuck himself. You're you, you're ace and you change for nobody.