Do Christians really believe most of us are going to hell?

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And why does it seem like you are misconceiving my post as suggesting malice in Christians?

Yeah, "malice" is the wrong word. How about an aura of smug superiority? They think their silly superstition makes them better than everyone else.

Or, as H. L. Mencken said:

God is the immemorial refuge of the incompetent, the helpless, the miserable. They find not only sanctuary in His arms, but also a kind of superiority, soothing to their macerated egos: He will set them above their betters.