Is it weird that I consider myself straight and I'm so interested in guys?

[TaraJo]

I dunno where to find them I looked up grindr when I was on my campus and there were a bunch of old guy non college students on my campus. I don't actually have a grindr account though. I just wanted to see if anyone who looked like they were from my campus used it.

Ok, I'm assuming your college has a gay/straight alliance, right? Go to it. You'll meet people there. There's a whole gay community out there; go to some of the gay themed events and you'll meet more and more people.

Dating sites aren't really my thing, so I don't mess with grindr and my OKCupid account hasn't been touched for months (and even then, it was mostly to goof around on the forums there). I find better relationships with people I meet irl; dating sites like that are good for hook-ups and I'm sure I could easily get a few of those if I wanted, but if you want something more substantial, they aren't the place to go.