(April 25, 2015 at 9:55 pm)Chad32 Wrote: Which is kind of disturbing to me. That can't really be healthy.By what measure is it not healthy? Because you wouldn't do it? Do you think forcing her to be a boy, which she's not in her brain, and go through puberty and lessen her chances to have a successful transition is healthy?
This idea that these parents just are elated to have the child they adopted be a girl because they are lesbians is infuriating. Every account of this story paints this out to have been an excruciatingly difficult process and decision where the hardest thing they had to do was to actually listen to their child, and advocate for her.
(April 25, 2015 at 9:55 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I just think maybe instead of changing someone's body, we should change our ideas of what a man or woman should be like. There is no real standard of what a man or woman needs to be, aside from what society instills in them. If we were just open about what a person could do, is there really anything a child couldn't do unless they had different body parts?
This isn't a case where she just wants to do 'girly' things. She literally understands herself as a girl. Her concept of being is that she is female. She feels wrong as a boy. It is a feeling that literally cannot be empathized with, I imagine. I cannot even fathom what it's like. But it has been studied and it is a real thing. Again, they aren't cutting off her penis. That's not happening. If she decides not to transition, they'll take the patch off and she'll go through puberty with no ill effects on her reproductive ability.
This, by all accounts, isn't a whimsy.
"There remain four irreducible objections to religious faith: that it wholly misrepresents the origins of man and the cosmos, that because of this original error it manages to combine the maximum servility with the maximum of solipsism, that it is both the result and the cause of dangerous sexual repression, and that it is ultimately grounded on wish-thinking." ~Christopher Hitchens, god is not Great
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