(May 8, 2015 at 1:00 am)AFTT47 Wrote:(May 7, 2015 at 11:49 pm)Wolf Denn Wrote: She is sincerely my dream girl in every way: she's beautiful, funny, a goof, smart, enjoys video games, and we have a common interest in theatre.
Let me tell you something you probably don't want to hear: The very concept of a 'dream girl' or 'dream guy' isn't much more realistic than the concept of God. There are probably thousands of girls you could be reasonably happy with (if you could find them) but not one of them will be a 'dream girl'. People are very complex and they change. No two people are going to be a perfect match. There will always be compromises. It's only a question of how much either party is willing to compromise. There is no fairy tale.
I understand, and I actually agree. I guess what I really meant was we started at a very good point. There wasn't much and still isn't much compromising that has to take place. And when there is, it's not usually an issue. But I definitely do agree with you about there being no fairy tales. I used "dream girl" as a shortcut to describe her as the person I want, and the things we differ on I am willing to compromise.
