Advice?

[robvalue]

Very sorry to hear about this I wish I had some great advice, but I can't think of anything that's not already been said.

One consolation I can offer is that if a strained relationship is producing an unhappy home life (I'm not saying this is necessarily the case with your parents) then a separation may be preferable from the point of view of children living in that house. For example, my parents stayed together despite pretty much hating each other for years, and argueing constantly. This had a massive detrimental and lasting effect on me, and I'd have much preferred they seperate than "sticking it out for the children."