(May 31, 2015 at 10:08 pm)Losty Wrote:(May 31, 2015 at 10:01 pm)Jenny A Wrote: By misdirected, I don't mean wrong just not attached to reproduction. My interest in pain fits that catagory.
Ahhh ok makes more sense.
By the way I think all of my sexual desires are misdirected. Reproduction is a total turn off
Mine too mostly. There was a brief period (twice) where we really wanted to make a baby. That added a real extra to sex, a good extra. But when you don't want another one (or even a first one) yes fear of pregnancy is NOT a turn-on.
If there is a god, I want to believe that there is a god. If there is not a god, I want to believe that there is no god.