(June 10, 2015 at 7:31 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote:(June 10, 2015 at 10:34 am)comet Wrote: mine died in the year 2000. Not a day goes by without a thought of him. And believe me when he told us "you people are keeping me alive for you." I understood what he meant. I'da done him myself. While it was fresh, I kept one thing of his that reminds me of him. It was his handshake. If I close my eyes and think I can feel it to this day.
hang in there guy. As you go on, look around for the reminders of him. they can't reliably repeat them, but people report them all the time. Heck, if it works in QM it can work in easing the transition for you.
The weirdest thing is that it keeps slipping my mind actually, then I'll think something like "oh I'll ask Dad what he thinks" and then it'll hit me again, I can't ask him. That's the worst bit.
I'm trying to look out for my Nana though, losing your child is every parents' worst nightmare I imagine.
I still find myself thinking "oh I'll ask Dad what he thinks." My dad died in 1998.
