Quote:If you personally think it's immoral that is your prerogative.
If you try to make a person (regardless of their gender) feel guilty for their sexual behavior, then that is slut shaming.
Of course I wouldn't stop people from having their behaviour, I consider promiscuous behaviour from both sides to be immoral, not because I think sex is only for procreation, but because I think sticking to a partner with emotional attachment makes more sense and compensates in the long run. Not that I think the occasional one night stand and hook up at the bar is immoral, it's not... What I consider immoral is people banging one different person per week and then complaining that dates don't take them seriously, it's just normal for people to refuse dating with someone who has had many sex partners. And I think promiscuous behaviour is for both sides not only women, even though women have a more easy time picking a partner, and that's the reason they get slut shamed more, even by non religious people. In all social groups most people will think of a woman who bangs the entire block as slut, that's how it works.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you
