Indoctrination & Mental Gymnastics

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Wow, you did a pretty good job there from what I can see. You came at it from many angles, with lots of solid arguments. She is clearly really far gone, with those mental defences set up strong.

I'll have a think about any other arguments you could use. It may just be that she is unreachable. But you never know, she may absorb some of the arguments even if she appears to ignore them, and she may subconsciously think it over a bit. With someone that fundamental it will take a lot of time and patience!

I'll rack the old noggin

I'm relieved to hear...or read, someone saying that. I don't know many atheists, this forum is great. Few deistic, agnostic, and a few lightly theistic friends. Little by little I can help her use critical thought, I believe I'm the first atheist she's known. I'm sure she'll encounter plenty more now that she's in college.

For me, history has been more persuasive than philosophy. Christians can always fall back on things like "the Lord works in mysterious ways" when confronted with evidence that the theology doesn't make sense. I've tried to learn as much as possible about the development of the Bible, Judaism, and Christianity. It seems like different techniques work for different people.

She may be reluctant to question the faith, I'll try to nudge her in the right direction. I have no intention of making her an atheist, I just want her to use her critical thinking in a more open way. She's restricted by fantasy. I'll keep referencing other religions and their similarities. Thank you.

Here's something she probably doesn't know, the Ten Commandments are not what people usually think they are, see video below.

Ooooh, good one. I can start with breaking down cultural misconceptions. She uses the NIV version of the Bible, so its perfect for just that. I love it. Thanks for the video, I may have encountered it in the past but have all but forgotten about it.

That is a very good thought, and I highly recommend Bart D. Ehrman to the OP. He came from good Christian stock and worked his way to agnosticism through studying the OT and the historical Jesus. Of his books, Jesus: Apocalyptic Prophet of the New Millennium, would be best. He has a number of gooog youtube presentations, and is a Great Courses lecturer (I recommend, How Jesus Became God). All of the Great Courses series are ridiculously overpriced but about 20 % of them are on sale and therefore reasonably priced at any given time.

The thing is that he comes from what might be her point of view, rather than making a blatantly head-on attack.

Hm, I'll find some of his work. Could very well make for a good read. Unfortunately, she lives on the other side of the country. I've offered to send her books in the past, but she declined politely. 'save your money'

Yeah, getting a load of examples of how Christianity completely ripped off earlier mythologies may be good. It's just a voodoo patchwork doll of dead religions with a new coat on.

She has to say all the previous ones are false, yet obvious copied parts of them are now suddenly true in Christianity.

Mhm, definitely. I had encouraged her to read text from other religions, but I'm not even sure she's read her own Bible...showing that to her will help piece together previously unconnected similarities. I'll do that. Thank you for the help.

If she really thinks gawd speaks through people, show her the biblical contradictions and ask her why he is giving out contradictory and misleading info. You can use the few hundred doomsday prophecies too.

If she thinks only her true god does miracles, a quick google will give you a few million miracles from other religions.

I showed her a list of contradictions, but again, the mental barriers cropped up. "Those were taken out of context" Nervous demeanor and averting her attention to something else. I'll keep it in mind though, so many contradictions its rediculous.

You could have her study the origins of written language. More than likely, she probably never even considered that. She probably subconsciously assumes the Bible is so old and started somewhere near the beginning of time 6-7000 years ago. Hell, she might not even have a timeline worked out in her head. If you shine a little light on the time frame of human ingenuity, it might give her some wiggle room to actually think about how things must have come about.

I always knew about evolution an I accepted it as a Christian, but I kept the two words apart. When I started my search for God I was forced to connect the two worlds in my head. Thinking about the whole of human existence really makes the bible seem silly.

She probably isn't or won't be ready for that, though. Too far gone, as others have said.

I wish I was a history buff, I'm not sure I know enough to discuss that area. I'd rather not spread misinformation, so I'll read more about it, thank you very much for the suggestion. She's not convinced of evolution, the big bang, or abiogenesis one way or another. So I might have to save those for when she's accumulated enough doubt or inquiry.

I think you should introduce her to this forum. I believe there are some people here who are looking for a theist to debate with.
(Well, it's their time, not my concern how they waste it...)

I could very well introduce her to the forum. I like the idea, you all seem rather friendly with the exception of 'Godschild'. She was looking to 'save' people of differing faith, perhaps I can convince her it can be done here.

Your pathetic, that's all the crap they have here and you expect them to give you something new, you all have used up your limited capacity to use your pitiful logic to change our hearts.
Have you told her what you're doing, running for help, why no, you know she'll laugh behind your back and to top it off your a coward if you do not tell her you're seeking help from other atheist.
You like other atheist do not like Christians to witness to you, so why are you doing the same thing, because you don't care about her, you just want to stroke your pride.

You seem to be rather cynical, I'm sorry to see that. I do appreciate you being on these forums, otherwise we'd have no one to discuss these things with. Constructive criticism would have been better suited for the discussion. Thank you for commenting.

I think he just loves his sister, believes she is intelligent and has been brainwashed. That she could do better, and deserves better?

What are her thoughts on dinosaurs? That is one of the most elementary arguments to me.

Good question, I'm not quite certainly she's a young Earth creationist. I suppose I'll bring that up soon. As for my cousin, yes, I think she has a lot of potential. When it comes to topics outside of religion she's rather articulate. She has a wonderful attitude, always smiling, but its not because of her faith alone.