I realized one day that I had been for a long, long, time, and was trying WAY too hard to try to keep myself suspending disbelief. It was my (then) Wiccan husband who questioned my Hindu beliefs, and got me to say, "You know, I don't believe this ridiculous stuff either". Then, a couple of years later, he followed me into admitting he's an atheist too.
We deconverted each other!
We deconverted each other!