Why do feminists have such a bad reputation?

[Foxaèr]

but in reality, if women are unattractive, whether that be in their looks or manner, men will not be attracted to them, plain and simple. You can't look or act any old way and come across any old way and expect men to find whatever you do attractive. Look at the animal kingdom.

Placing your perceptions on the world will not make the world that way. The world is as it is despite the sexist colored glasses you wear. Not everyone's perception of beauty is the same, because what one man may find unattractive another man may find quite beautiful. One should not concern herself with what the typical man thinks, but rather she should concern herself with how she views herself foremost. Once she is comfortable with herself, the right type of men will also see her for the true beauty she possesses.