RE: The friend zone is the worst place to ever be in ever.
October 3, 2013 at 11:45 am
(This post was last modified: October 3, 2013 at 11:50 am by Violet.)
(October 3, 2013 at 10:35 am)Sakumofo Wrote: Thanks for all the advice guys. I actually tried just ignoring him for the beginning of the year because I didnt want to get friendzoned. The thing is I dont really know if Im totally in there yet. So I decided to just try harder.
I would just ask him out, but I am pretty terrified of what will happen. I guess it doesnt help I am a girl, and I dont know how guys feel about being asked out.
Regardless of his answer, the basic description you've given of him (intentional or not) lends me to believe he's a good guy. Gender is not really particular to this case: people of all genders appreciate being 'asked out'. It's flattering, unless the person is some condescending bitch
Quote:He actually teased about me taking his virginity once, but honestly I'm a virgin too, and at the time didnt like him. I may have blown my chance there -_- dont know if he liked me then either,and he was just making a funny. He has a pretty sick sense of humor which I love.
* Violet doesn't understand, or perhaps she should stop reading so much into things.
Recommendation: study up on the subject, if just a bit. Practice is far more educational, but it is so due to flops, typically.
*IF* you get it to a point of sexual concern, I'd start with dry-humping and general foreplay. There's no reason to rush naked sex, and doing so would wind up making you remember your 'first time' painfully, as a distinctly non-fun experience.
(October 3, 2013 at 11:42 am)plaincents822 Wrote: Hence why I listed two other options, and then said "[/b]last resort[/b] fuck him." You don't open with fucking.
Which is still why the response was like it was: at that point, you may as well just give it up, and enjoy a potentially long term friendship... the common results of 'last resort fucking someone' are to either have a flat 'no' thrown your way (and to be thought the lesser, for it)... or for it to be seen as a once-off occasion to never happen again (and often afterwords they will drift apart).
Sure, it *can* work out... but the cases where it works out it could easily have worked without said forcing.
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
