RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 16, 2018 at 11:40 am
(This post was last modified: January 16, 2018 at 11:40 am by henryp.)
(January 16, 2018 at 11:14 am)Shell B Wrote:You don't think so? Seems like she wasn't into some of the weird shit he was doing, but because she didn't assert herself, she did some stuff she didn't want to do.(January 16, 2018 at 10:50 am)wallym Wrote: Being a strong confident assertive woman is great. But I don't know if the consequences of not being one should be dudes getting to stick whatever they want wherever they want.
It's definitely a status quo that seems like guys came up with.
No, that shouldn’t be the consequence and isn’t what happened.
I'm of the opinion the 'consent checklist' is a bit dopey. At the same time, if you've modeled your mating style after a bangbros video, there has to be some sort of headsup to the lady that you're going to try and treat her like a fuck toy.
Intuitively, on a first date, when you know you don't know shit about the person you're with, to just jump right into some stuff that you know a lot of people aren't going to be into isn't rape, but it's a little rape-y.