RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 1:21 pm
(This post was last modified: January 18, 2018 at 1:23 pm by Edwardo Piet.)
(January 18, 2018 at 1:11 pm)Mermaid Wrote:(January 18, 2018 at 12:55 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Imagine this. Two people start making out. Clothes come off. They continue to make out, completely naked. Is it reasonable at that point for one of them to assume that its ok to reach for the others' genetelia?
If you're making out with someone and you both got naked and are making out naked, do you have to ask "may I touch your vagina?" If you do so without asking, is that sexual assault?
As I said before. Getting naked during a make out session certainly sends out a major non verbal cue.
This is arguable but I was asking about what Hammy said specifically, that a woman is consenting to sex if she does not say "Stop" or "No".
During sex, yes. Obviously if a guy walks up to a woman and tries to stick his penis in her that's rape even if she didn't say anything.
But if you're already having sex with a woman it wouldn't possibly work for the woman to have to constantly say "don't stop" all the time. If sex has already commenced then, yes, a "stop" is required. Rather than a "Hey I wanted to stop half way through the sex but I kept quiet and you failed to read my mind!"