In support of the rage of man

[Yonadav]

At least we're getting closer to the source of your gripe about the rage of man.  There is a woman who makes you want to throw shit.  If I were you, I'd get out of that before you did something (else) stupid.  No one with functioning brain cells is going to hear that story, or any story like it, and think "yeah, yeah, in support of the rage of man".  They're going to realize that you're an unhinged loon who smashes his toys like a child when the bad lady says mean words.

I'm legitimately surprised that she's still with you...so I guess it's not all bad for guys, right?  You can get away with that bullshit.

And there we are.  You can demonize me, but I am what I am, and I took measures both to control my feelings and to minimize their effect.  I'm not particularly happy about that situation, but I think it's worth discussing honestly.

You want to use this as a target for your PC trigger, then go ahead.  But I'm trying to carry on an honest discussion about feelings, and anyway there's nothing you're likely to say that will hurt me more than what I've already thought and felt after those incidents.

Dude, I'm really serious when I tell you that your wife needs to be made to understand that she can't physically block you when you are trying to walk away. Walking away is the manly thing to do. It's the wise thing to do. You know this. 

When your wife physically blocks you from walking away, that's taking the argument to a physical level. You know that a man who blocks your exit when you are angry and trying to walk away is trying to take the conflict to another level. It's exactly the same when a woman does it. She's hoping you will back down rather than get physical, but she's willing to get physical.  In the US, it really is illegal to block a person who is trying to exit. 

You can get her to understand that she can't physically block you from leaving through counseling. You really can call the police when she blocks you. In the US, the police would probably just ask you to put her on the line, and they would tell her that she needs to step aside. Or you can just talk to her about it when there is peace between you, and see if you can make her understand how important it is that she step aside when you are trying to leave.

Because what you did wasn't all that bad. Physically blocking someone who is trying to walk away is really, really aggressive. Imagine it with two dudes who are becoming physically confrontational, and one of them tries to walk away. The other guy physically blocks him from walking away, which almost never happens because it is an ultra aggressive dick move. That ultra aggressive dick move is what you wife did when she physically blocked you from walking away. You went through the roof because that's what we do when someone pulls an ultra aggressive dick move on us. You're confused about this, because it's your wife and she's a woman, and women don't do ultra aggressive dick moves. But they do.

So for your sake and hers, she needs to be made to understand that she can't do that ultra aggressive dick move.