Abortion: 10 years as an atheist and I still don't get it

[The Architect Of Fate]

Fair point. 
In trying to think of a counter claim to my own argument I thought the best way would be to find something with the definition i used for an immoral act

You have not

Is deliberately starting a bushfire an immoral act? It's causing harm to plant and creatures

Not equal to abortion 

But if it's controlled back burning done to better manage real fires then it's not immoral

What?

Im sure there would be more examples along those lines

I do't even get how it's an example 

But the main strength of that moral argument is the pain.

Pain is sometimes just

 It's immoral to inflict pain on humans weather they are old, young or unborn. Pain is pain

Not always 

Even if u disagree u have to admit its a sound moral argument.

 Nope

Talk to me also about my social argument about safe sex and responsibility. 

Of which you did a terrible job 

Ultimately that is what is causing so many unwanted pregnancies these days and STDs so more thought needs to be put into fixing the cause as well i think

You failed