(December 15, 2019 at 6:40 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: Was at a dance when I was in my early 20s dancing with my date. Some random guy came up behind me and grabbed my ass. Without looking I swung around and backhanded him in the mouth splitting his lip. He started yelling at me. Guess it would have been good for him to know my date was a black belt with a bad temper. He should have taken his fat lip and moved on.
Most of the time when I was out in bars in my younger days I was the bartender. I liked having the bar between me and the boozy, over-impressed with themselves guys.
I've never understood why anyone thinks they have the right to touch someone without their consent. I am not even a 'huggy' person. Stay out of my bubble and I'll stay out of yours - regardless of your intent.
I was at a party once and a guy walked straight up to me and grabbed my tits. I responded with a knee to his groin.
He spent a good few minutes lying on the ground in pain.
The incredible bit is that I was the bad guy. I was called a bitch and all sorts of other things by his friends.
One even justified his actions with “but he always does that.”
And I basically said well, he wouldn’t be doing that with me again.
Dying to live, living to die.
