How to not be desperate for a gf?

[The Grand Nudger]

It was only a matter of time until you offered your services as a sex trafficker wasn't it?

[jackman]

My personal advice?
First and foremost of all, never, ever listen to a girl for relationship advice.
Just follow the routine. It almost always works, you just need to shuffle through the available people.

homophobe and now misogynist as well. just endearing yourself to no end, i see. btw, how long does shipping take?

[kılıç_mehmet]

My personal advice?
First and foremost of all, never, ever listen to a girl for relationship advice.
Just follow the routine. It almost always works, you just need to shuffle through the available people.

homophobe and now misogynist as well. just endearing yourself to no end, i see. btw, how long does shipping take?

I speak of personal experience.
Whenever I ask girls, they give the most cliche answers. "Just be yourself" and "Be confident". They don't really tell you what they really, really want. They can't tell you to be rich, to be successful, to be handsome, to be cultured, to be active, to be educated, or whatever that is that they want. If they did, they're probably break your heart, as you probably lack one or more qualities that they really want to see in a man. I do not hate women. How could I, while one gave birth to me? How could I, while I have a sister? How could I if I plan to have daughters in the future? But I tell the truth, I have no fear of anyone. The fact that I have a mother, sister and hopefully, daughters, will not change this.

How long? How long does a plane need to go from Ukraine to the US?

[Zen Badger]

Get a motorcycle Dude, chicks Luuuuurve motorcycles.

[kılıç_mehmet]

Besides, I do not live with the approval of anyone, as I'd die with the disapproval of one.
My words are out in the open.

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Get a motorcycle Dude, chicks Luuuuurve motorcycles.

One advice that is worth heeding.
Another would be a car, girls want to go out, and generally choose people who can take them there other than by of forcing them to walk or take a bus.

[jackman]

I speak of personal experience.
Whenever I ask girls, they give the most cliche answers. "Just be yourself" and "Be confident". They don't really tell you what they really, really want. They can't tell you to be rich, to be successful, to be handsome, to be cultured, to be active, to be educated, or whatever that is that they want. If they did, they're probably break your heart, as you probably lack one or more qualities that they really want to see in a man. I do not hate women. How could I...

i was joking with you about the misogynist part. your post was funny and there was some truth in it. a lot of women i've bumped into would certainly lie about what they want. men and women both give each other their "demo", it's just like their intro package - major changes come after the demo plays out. many (not all) that i've known or chatted with, would certainly trade up at a second's notice - if pro athelete, singer, celeb or just someone with a ton of money comes thru. it's a shame to trade quality for quantity, but it happens often.

[kılıç_mehmet]

I speak of personal experience.
Whenever I ask girls, they give the most cliche answers. "Just be yourself" and "Be confident". They don't really tell you what they really, really want. They can't tell you to be rich, to be successful, to be handsome, to be cultured, to be active, to be educated, or whatever that is that they want. If they did, they're probably break your heart, as you probably lack one or more qualities that they really want to see in a man. I do not hate women. How could I...

i was joking with you about the misogynist part. your post was funny and there was some truth in it. a lot of women i've bumped into would certainly lie about what they want. men and women both give each other their "demo", it's just like their intro package - major changes come after the demo plays out. many (not all) that i've known or chatted with, would certainly trade up at a second's notice - if pro athelete, singer, celeb or just someone with a ton of money comes thru. it's a shame to trade quality for quantity, but it happens often.

Well, being one of those that you mentioned is also a quality, not a quantity. We're the quantity, they are the quality.
Most people are aware of this, and therefore they give up any real hopes of dating or marrying a pro-athlete, or a fashion model.
There are some who do not look for these. I for example, would not marry a fashion model. I want to have a wife who is of a certain profession. Like for example, an engineer, or chemist.
Others, like pharmacists want doctors as their spouse.
There are many qualities in which people look for.
But they look for something.
Something specific, not something "general".
Like courage or "be yourself". You sometimes have to be something else than what you are. For me, it's not that really hard. For I doubt that there is a "genuine" Mehmet down there. There never was.
I play a theatre play in my personal life. Treat people differently, speak in different accents, use different facial mimics.
I have to, in order to maintain the social standing I have today.
This sometimes extends to women, to which I also perform the same facade.

[Epimethean]

Desperation drives girls away. Some advice:

Find female friends whom you do not need to sleep with. Cultivate good friendships with them.

Masturbate every day. This will take the edge off and keep your eyes from gleaming too ferally.

Find a serious hobby and become passionate about it. Let some of that manic energy leech into the hobby. This will serve both to make you more interesting, so long as the hobby is not collecting comic books or Pokemon cards, and will funnel some of your procreative drive into an outlet where you can create without complication.

Read widely. Learn about new things. Do not limit yourself to atheist stuff, as it can become rather cloying to creativity to only read in one area. Read broadly in order to make yourself a bigger person. Watch both sides of the news, too. Think for yourself and get used to having an opinion-and one that does not change because a girl wants it to be different.

Workout, play sports, be physical. I think you said that you do some of this. It is good on many levels.

Avoid desperation. It will only get you women you do not want and will then create a meatloaf desperation, a la "Paradise By the Dashboard Light."

Cheers.

[kılıç_mehmet]

Find female friends whom you do not need to sleep with. Cultivate good friendships with them.

That is something one should not do if you ask me. Of course if your motivation is to further your relationship beyond friendship.

If you like or love that girl, but if she wants to stay friends, end your friendship, after admitting your feelings.
She will respect your choice, she has to.

[Epimethean]

KM, you don't like that because you don't respect women. Men are very healthy when they learn how to be human beings, which usually involves being around both sexes, and often without fucking.