Would you have sex with a shemale?

[Violet]

A lot of them like the term T-girl.

Says the guy who in his OP declared he'd never slept with one... and now we hear this same guy with a transfetish say that *a lot of them* like this term?

Pretty sketch.

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OP. Probably not, but nothing is impossible.

There you go: way to do things right 5th!

[Shell B]

Hehe, you're not invisible. I was being a jerk back to him about the term "tranny." Note that I said, I don't know any "trannies" that do females.

[Aegrus]

I bring you... Andrej Pejic!

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Because obviously you'd have to be gay to want to sleep with him (he is infact androgynous and undergoing no hormone therapy).

I rather believe you have no idea just who you would and would not enjoy sex with. I've been with a bunch of straight men, and my having a penis was something *to work around*. Nothing more. Just as having your left leg shot off in a war is something *to work around*.

As fun as it might be to assume that a penis shuts down everything attractive in a woman... I would remind that blanket statements or especially generalized statements regarding something you have not yet experienced can make one look like a retard. Which is exactly how a 5 year old boy looks when he says 'yuck' when he sees a girl: childish and inexperienced.

You assume that all blanket statements are incorrect. Andrej Pejic is clearly breathtakingly hot- but I can't see his penis from that picture.

In the situation, I can't know what I would actually do. But as a distant onlooker, the thought of a penis other than my own involved in sex repulses me. That's a blanket statement, but it's one that I can make because I've never been attracted to penises, no matter what they are attached to. To me, they're a massive turn-off. I'm not telling you how to live your life. I gave an opinion of how I would most likely react.

I don't care how many men you've slept with who've been fine with it, that doesn't mean the same applies to me. Who's making blanket statements now? You may as well have said that because several men "work around" a penis, anyone who says they would do otherwise is clueless to their sexual identity.

It's arrogant to assume that you know what I prefer better than I do, and it's insulting.

[Violet]

@Shelly: Good, just checking that I wasn't forgotten

You assume that all blanket statements are incorrect. Andrej Pejic is clearly breathtakingly hot- but I can't see his penis from that picture.

Notation: you are also unlikely to see a penis from the doggystyle position.

And also: no, I very clearly did not assume that all blanket statements were incorrect, note:

Violet: "I would remind that blanket statements or especially generalized statements regarding something you have not yet experienced can make one look like a retard."

I made extra extra sure that word was in there before I posted it.

In the situation, I can't know what I would actually do. But as a distant onlooker, the thought of a penis other than my own involved in sex repulses me. That's a blanket statement, but it's one that I can make because I've never been attracted to penises, no matter what they are attached to. To me, they're a massive turn-off. I'm not telling you how to live your life. I gave an opinion of how I would most likely react.

Question then: how do you feel about strapons?

edited: I added in this bit that I forgot, sorry if you respond before you read it.

I'm not telling you how to live your life... I am suggesting that you did not think what you said through, sharing my experiences for your benefit on the topic you brought up, and providing you with my opinion that what is between someone's legs shouldn't matter... especially if everything else about them works for you. Are they Christian? Does that matter if the rest of them is good enough for you? Do they have pockmarks from removing warts when they were 12? So what if they weren't 100% perfect... is it like you were ever going to find someone who was? Are they 'overweight'? Like the rest... if you like someone for most of what they offer: is it worth dwelling on the small (large ) part of them you don't like?

I don't care how many men you've slept with who've been fine with it, that doesn't mean the same applies to me. Who's making blanket statements now? You may as well have said that because several men "work around" a penis, anyone who says they would do otherwise is clueless to their sexual identity.

Try not to misuse the term 'blanket statement'. That could also make you look like a retard

And again, I'm covered:

"I've been with a bunch of straight men, and my having a penis was something *to work around*"

I provided my experiences and shared them with you for your consideration. You will also notice the statement immediately following it about legs.

And no, I said nothing of the sort. I suggested only that it is something you can probably get over if the rest of the package is up to your standards (As a missing left leg might be... savvy?).

Finally yes: being unwilling to consider that you might find a (man or) woman sexy before you get into her pants does sound very much like cluelessness about your sexual identity. You tell me that a penis is a dealbreaker... I hear "the computer looks fantastic and runs smoothly but doesn't have a disc drive. Yeah I've heard about stuff like filesharing over the wifi, but it's got to be a disk drive or no deal."

It just sounds so, oh yes... I do believe you used the term yourself:

It's arrogant to assume that you know what I prefer better than I do, and it's insulting.

Oh you're insulted? Boo hoo... try reading this thread from my perspective. Go on: read that first post, the one I responded to, I'll save you the effort and link it here:

Most likely not, if by shemale you mean a male who takes estrogen and resembles a female but still possesses a penis. I'm not gay, not that it really matters. I fully support gay rights, I'm just not interested in sex with a person who is physically a dude.

If a person of the male sex had trans-gender surgery to become, for all intents and purposes, female, then yes, I would have sex with aforementioned person.

My gods but does that piss me off, and in more ways than 6.

[Aegrus]

I'm really not seeing what pissed you off. It wasn't my intent to upset anyone with that post. Perhaps I'm just too ignorant of the subject matter.

My use of the word "shemale" could be offensive, I suppose. If that's the case, I'm sincerely sorry. At the time, I wasn't aware it was derogatory. Was there anything else, aside from stating that I wouldn't have sex with a transexual? (I'm not going to apologize for that, for the same reason I wouldn't expect a homosexual woman to apologize for refusing to have sex with me.)

[Violet]

I'm really not seeing what pissed you off. It wasn't my intent to upset anyone with that post. Perhaps I'm just too ignorant of the subject matter.

Well, let's try to de-ignoratize you.

My use of the word "shemale" could be offensive, I suppose. If that's the case, I'm sincerely sorry. At the time, I wasn't aware it was derogatory. Was there anything else, aside from stating that I wouldn't have sex with a transexual? (I'm not going to apologize for that, for the same reason I wouldn't expect a homosexual woman to apologize for refusing to have sex with me.)

Oh my goodness, you've done it again. 'Shemale' is derogatory, but that isn't what pissed me off. There's more to a person than what's between their legs. Following is an examination of the 'highlights' of the first post you made in this thread.

Most likely not, if by shemale you mean a male who takes estrogen and resembles a female but still possesses a penis.

RESEMBLES?! They *are* women. Their possession of a penis means about as much as any woman with a strapon dick... only we can't take it off so easily. It's also a higher quality strapon... complete with heat, ejaculation (haha... notsomuch), generates its own aroma, and goes from soft to hard and back again.

As if the possession of a penis de-resembles a woman from being such... I'd never heard this claim before this thread...

And yes, I am fully aware of the difference between sex and gender. However... I am equally aware of just how misleading and open to misinterpretation that calling a transwoman 'male' is. Resembling something isn't being something... and suggesting that transwomen resemble other women suggests they are a facade, not real, illusory, as fake as a strapon.

I'm not gay, not that it really matters. I fully support gay rights, I'm just not interested in sex with a person who is physically a dude.

We're talking about transWOMEN. And you even bring up homosexuality?! "I'm not gay" (suggesting that the person is not attractive to them due to not being gay) in response to a thread about women (a specific group of them)... how would you imagine any other woman would feel about that?

PHYSICALLY A DUDE?! FFS... breasts, soft skin, lacking of body hair... that's sure as fuck physically a dude. Why is a penis that much more 'physically a dude' than her breasts, skin, significantly lower body hair, changes in body odor and sweat production, reduced testes size, lightened hair, reduced muscles, and enlarged nipples and areola... put together? Saying that a transwoman (even top models like Brazil's) are 'physically dudes' is an oversimplified stance to take. And calling any transwoman a man is quite likely very offensive to that woman.

Hell, I went from Epic Lilly to depression within a week of having to deal with constantly being misgendered. Eventually it's grating to the point that I don't talk to anyone who does it, and even actively avoid them if they are nearby.

If a person of the male sex had trans-gender surgery to become, for all intents and purposes, female, then yes, I would have sex with aforementioned person.

For all intents and purposes... like birth... or vaginal juices... or a non-enlarged adams apple... or shoulders that aren't spread so wide... or smaller hands and/or feet... or a jaw that isn't so sharp and square... or a brow that isn't so jutting and wide...?

Different women have different challenges... unfortunately: many transgendered women end up having to spend massive amounts to undo what testosterone has done to them. And some things... like birth... cannot be had by us with current technology.

And apparently regardless of how much you like them (even love them)... you wouldn't treat them like any other woman you liked that much. And that's heartbreaking.

[Aegrus]

I see your point, and I really am sorry. I hadn't thought about it like that before. I won't make the same mistake again.

[Violet]

I see your point, and I really am sorry. I hadn't thought about it like that before. I won't make the same mistake again.

It's okay

Have a biiiiiig polar bear hug!

[Cinjin]

No. What would be the point?

What would be the point of sex?

Was it to have fun? Maybe with someone you like?

Have you ever been engaged in sexual congress with a beautiful woman??? Why on earth would I need to add a dick to it???

Plenty often... and strapons are wonderful things from my perspective.

* Violet Lilly Blossom wouldn't have minded if her above mentioned girlfriend had been a transwoman... also as previously mentioned: what genitalia lies between the legs is irrelevant.

Indeed ... from your perspective. The question (OP) was asked of me (and all of us) and despite his use of offensive terms, I answered honestly. I afford you the courtesy of answering how you see fit without judging you for it. Please do the same for all of us. If you're comfortable having sex with both sexes - that's great for you. If you consider the rest of us close-minded prudish assholes simply because we would prefer having sex with only members of the opposite sex, that says far more about your closed mind than it does about ours. I expect that kind of judgmental attitude from asshole christians. You seem to have gone on the offensive simply because the author of the OP was a total douche bag.

Am I not allowed to be strictly heterosexual? Do those like me offend you somehow? I have no problem with your sexual choices -- Do you have a problem with mine? I'd gladly spend time with you. I'd drink with you, do shots with you, and let everyone know you were my friend. I just wouldn't fuck you. Do I not have that privilege?

If I'm wrong about you going on the offensive, than I withdraw my remarks, but a lot of what I read seemed to have a lot of hostility and arrogance aimed at people who simply answered a question.