any advice?

[justin]

Any advice on how to heal a "broken heart" (i can't think of other way to put it, sorry). Or to ease it basically? Gf left me out of the blue. The same one who just had my son and my daughters. The one who cheated on me after our twin girls were born with her ex and i foolishly forgave. Then i find out she has been in contact with him after we break up by using a different fb page. Lying to me the whole time. We (me and my family suspect she went out last weekend and saw him because we also found out he was back in town that same weekend. She said she was going out with friend to a movie while was watching the kids. After me working and me going to school all day. She then tells me they didn't make it and spent four hours driving around grabbing some food, and going to Walmart. She said called me the NEXT night at 2 a.m and said she wasn't happy and we weren't the same people. Oh she also confessed to having dreams about this guy after my son was born. About "hooking" up with him. I asked what was better about him and she responded "he has more money" i have little money cause it all goes to the girls, school, or living expenses. Basically i got used, fucked over, and thrown away like a piece of shit and spat on afterwards. I'm sorry if i sound stupid or anything i just don't have anywhere to turn or anyone to talk to just in a really bad place.

[paulpablo]

Any advice on how to heal a "broken heart" (i can't think of other way to put it, sorry). Or to ease it basically? Gf left me out of the blue. The same one who just had my son and my daughters. The one who cheated on me after our twin girls were born with her ex and i foolishly forgave. Then i find out she has been in contact with him after we break up by using a different fb page. Lying to me the whole time. We (me and my family suspect she went out last weekend and saw him because we also found out he was back in town that same weekend. She said she was going out with friend to a movie while was watching the kids. After me working and me going to school all day. She then tells me they didn't make it and spent four hours driving around grabbing some food, and going to Walmart. She said called me the NEXT night at 2 a.m and said she wasn't happy and we weren't the same people. Oh she also confessed to having dreams about this guy after my son was born. About "hooking" up with him. I asked what was better about him and she responded "he has more money" i have little money cause it all goes to the girls, school, or living expenses. Basically i got used, fucked over, and thrown away like a piece of shit and spat on afterwards. I'm sorry if i sound stupid or anything i just don't have anywhere to turn or anyone to talk to just in a really bad place.

Do whatever you can to forget about her she already sounds like the worst kind of bitch. That should be self explanatory.
You have kids and support them so at least you can look yourself in the mirror and be proud. To me it just sounds like you're doing a good job of not being a scumbag even after living with scum (your ex)
Don't do drugs or alcohol or anything though to forget about her, i don't know what else to say really that's all i can say based on your story.

[Angrboda]

Perhaps if you wrote a country song about it?

[justin]

Any advice on how to heal a "broken heart" (i can't think of other way to put it, sorry). Or to ease it basically? Gf left me out of the blue. The same one who just had my son and my daughters. The one who cheated on me after our twin girls were born with her ex and i foolishly forgave. Then i find out she has been in contact with him after we break up by using a different fb page. Lying to me the whole time. We (me and my family suspect she went out last weekend and saw him because we also found out he was back in town that same weekend. She said she was going out with friend to a movie while was watching the kids. After me working and me going to school all day. She then tells me they didn't make it and spent four hours driving around grabbing some food, and going to Walmart. She said called me the NEXT night at 2 a.m and said she wasn't happy and we weren't the same people. Oh she also confessed to having dreams about this guy after my son was born. About "hooking" up with him. I asked what was better about him and she responded "he has more money" i have little money cause it all goes to the girls, school, or living expenses. Basically i got used, fucked over, and thrown away like a piece of shit and spat on afterwards. I'm sorry if i sound stupid or anything i just don't have anywhere to turn or anyone to talk to just in a really bad place.

Do whatever you can to forget about her she already sounds like the worst kind of bitch. That should be self explanatory.
You have kids and support them so at least you can look yourself in the mirror and be proud. To me it just sounds like you're doing a good job of not being a scumbag even after living with scum (your ex)
Don't do drugs or alcohol or anything though to forget about her, i don't know what else to say really that's all i can say based on your story.

Thank you, it means alot.

[Jackalope]

Justin - I'm probably the last person someone would want to take relationship advice from, so I won't give you any. I will say that I'm sorry you were hurt, and that you don't deserve to be treated that way. All we can do is pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and try to learn from our experiences.

[justin]

Perhaps if you wrote a country song about it?

I do play the guitar and like country music

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Justin - I'm probably the last person someone would want to take relationship advice from, so I won't give you any. I will say that I'm sorry you were hurt, and that you don't deserve to be treated that way. All we can do is pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and try to learn from our experiences.

Thank you. You're right and i don't deserve that kind of treatment. Learned from a very hard way. Experience.