What's everyone up to right now?

[*Deidre*]

Reading older posts/threads...and wondering why people who seemed so enamored with Matt/Thunder Cunt at one point in time, turned on him so vehemently.
Wow. Guess I missed a lot 'round here.

In all honesty he always struck me as creepy and disturbed.

I've encountered the type online before and recognised the persecution complex of someone who actually stalked myself and a number of other people online, a number of years back, so I suspected what we would encounter.

Unfortunately I was right. The previous person I had encountered kept trying to make sock accounts and get onto a forum I ran - which was closed and invitation only.

Some symptoms are easy to spot, especially if you've encountered them before. For my part, he ended up on my ignore list fairly quickly.

I honestly understand. He apologized to me for asking for my number, which I wasn't giving out. I think it's wise to be private on the net, for sure. That's not it. I get that people thought he was creepy, or his behavior was outlandish...but, there were people that seemed like they cared about him. Liked him. It's hard to read those same people's very negative comments towards him, now that he is banned.

I talk to him on the other site, I see the good in him. He was very up front when he came to the site here...in his opening thread. I think he has a few disorders, some personality related, some manic, that he's admitted. Again, I saw the phone number thread, and that was over the top...I told him that. That's not it. What is sad to me is there were certain people who acted like they liked him, and now they act like he's the worst villain alive. lol

Just was surprised to see that, is all, Beccs.

[Jackalope]

What is sad to me is there were certain people who acted like they liked him, and now they act like he's the worst villain alive. lol

I couldn't say what changed in other people. I have a lot of sympathy / empathy for his mental condition. If my recollection is correct, we have a disorder in common, and it's something I would not wish on anybody.

I don't dislike the person. I dislike the actions he has chosen to engage in after the staff made the decision to remove him permanently. I bear no ill will towards the man, but I do wish that he would stop and do something constructive.

[*Deidre*]

What is sad to me is there were certain people who acted like they liked him, and now they act like he's the worst villain alive. lol

I couldn't say what changed in other people. I have a lot of sympathy / empathy for his mental condition. If my recollection is correct, we have a disorder in common, and it's something I would not wish on anybody.

I don't dislike the person. I dislike the actions he has chosen to engage in after the staff made the decision to remove him permanently. I bear no ill will towards the man, but I do wish that he would stop and do something constructive.

There's an old saying, what you don't know won't hurt you. Gosh, that's true.

I understand better now...and thank you.

Sad stuff.

Anyway...back to talking about better things in this thread, I didn't mean to derail it with this.

[Jackalope]

I dunno about anyone else, but I'm getting thirsty, and oh boy, look at the time!

[The Valkyrie]

In all honesty he always struck me as creepy and disturbed.

I've encountered the type online before and recognised the persecution complex of someone who actually stalked myself and a number of other people online, a number of years back, so I suspected what we would encounter.

Unfortunately I was right. The previous person I had encountered kept trying to make sock accounts and get onto a forum I ran - which was closed and invitation only.

Some symptoms are easy to spot, especially if you've encountered them before. For my part, he ended up on my ignore list fairly quickly.

I honestly understand. He apologized to me for asking for my number, which I wasn't giving out. I think it's wise to be private on the net, for sure. That's not it. I get that people thought he was creepy, or his behavior was outlandish...but, there were people that seemed like they cared about him. Liked him. It's hard to read those same people's very negative comments towards him, now that he is banned.

I talk to him on the other site, I see the good in him. He was very up front when he came to the site here...in his opening thread. I think he has a few disorders, some personality related, some manic, that he's admitted. Again, I saw the phone number thread, and that was over the top...I told him that. That's not it. What is sad to me is there were certain people who acted like they liked him, and now they act like he's the worst villain alive. lol

Just was surprised to see that, is all, Beccs.

I agree. There was a lot of turning. Part of the reason, to be honest, that he was on my ignore list is that I recognised his mental state and didn't want to respond with anything nasty to his posts.

I'm the first to admit that I can get really nasty on occasion, so it's better for me not to respond at times to posts from people that might make them worse.

[Marsellus Wallace]

Becss, did you hate my last question in my last post in this thread ? It was meant to be a psychological question, thats all .

[*Deidre*]

I honestly understand. He apologized to me for asking for my number, which I wasn't giving out. I think it's wise to be private on the net, for sure. That's not it. I get that people thought he was creepy, or his behavior was outlandish...but, there were people that seemed like they cared about him. Liked him. It's hard to read those same people's very negative comments towards him, now that he is banned.

I talk to him on the other site, I see the good in him. He was very up front when he came to the site here...in his opening thread. I think he has a few disorders, some personality related, some manic, that he's admitted. Again, I saw the phone number thread, and that was over the top...I told him that. That's not it. What is sad to me is there were certain people who acted like they liked him, and now they act like he's the worst villain alive. lol

Just was surprised to see that, is all, Beccs.

I agree. There was a lot of turning. Part of the reason, to be honest, that he was on my ignore list is that I recognised his mental state and didn't want to respond with anything nasty to his posts.

I'm the first to admit that I can get really nasty on occasion, so it's better for me not to respond at times to posts from people that might make them worse.

Yea, I see. I never watched those videos in the off topic section, until today. lol I'm a bit slow on the uptake.

Well, he's my online friend, and when we talk in pm, he's great. He's got a nice way about him. But, I know he has problems. I told him actually recently, to let AF go. Maybe it will just take time.

The moral of the story. I need to never take any hiatuses from here again.

I do understand why he was banned, and honestly...I think he does, too. I thought it was only to do with the phone number thread, though.

So...I'm feeling thirsty too, but need a stiffer drink, I'm thinkin.'

[The Valkyrie]

Becss, did you hate my last question in my last post in this thread ? It was meant to be a psychological question, thats all .

Sorry, skipped right over it.

Let me go back and look.

Psychoanalysing me has proved dangerous for many.

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Pushing 30.

how do you feel about your early 20's ? your mind set at that time ? do you always get that feeling that you were so dump when you were younger ?

its so hard to type when i'm drunk , backspace saves me.

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oh shit , I threw up , I think I pushed for the limit.

I look back at "Party Beccs" and think there's a lot more I could have done with my life, even back then. I wouldn't say I was dumb, but I certainly lacked in wisdom.

But then, that's what the late teens/early 20s is for, in my opinion.

[No_God]

Being a lonely housewife

[KichigaiNeko]

Getting ready to donate some blood.