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Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?

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Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 4:31 pm
(January 14, 2014 at 4:30 pm)Chuck Wrote: It uses a relative frame of reference.

And I prefer unstable orbits and accelerating trajectories.
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 4:31 pm (This post was last modified: January 14, 2014 at 4:32 pm by Anomalocaris.)
(January 14, 2014 at 4:29 pm)rasetsu Wrote: I prefer to dominate through submission. Does that make me a top or bottom?

That would be a circular reference.
(January 14, 2014 at 4:31 pm)rasetsu Wrote: And I prefer unstable orbits and accelerating trajectories.

That's why when you get into it, hours can seem like days.
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 4:39 pm (This post was last modified: January 14, 2014 at 4:40 pm by Angrboda.)
(January 14, 2014 at 4:31 pm)Chuck Wrote:
(January 14, 2014 at 4:31 pm)rasetsu Wrote: And I prefer unstable orbits and accelerating trajectories.

That's why when you get into it, hours can seem like days.

Did I mention the bistable oscillations and sonic booms? The three part harmonies? The thunder and the showers?
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 5:22 pm
(January 14, 2014 at 4:29 pm)rasetsu Wrote:
(January 14, 2014 at 4:25 pm)EgoRaptor Wrote: Top in this case means dominate.

I prefer to dominate through submission. Does that make me a top or bottom?


Technically referred to as topping from the bottom. Makes you a bottom, as opposed to a sub.
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 5:49 pm
I've heard there's such a thing as a pushy bottom.
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 5:49 pm
Nnnnope.

I consider it to be a part of our species' sexual drive, because...well, it is. I don't consider any sexual act immoral if it's between consenting adults.
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 6:40 pm
(January 14, 2014 at 5:49 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I've heard there's such a thing as a pushy bottom.
I'm definitely not one. I love being bossed around and told what to do (only by people I really like though)!
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 14, 2014 at 6:48 pm
Okay, I thought that's what you meant, but I'm no expert on bdsm.
Poe's Law: "Without a winking smiley or other blatant display of humor, it is impossible to create a parody of Fundamentalism that SOMEONE won't mistake for the real thing."

10 Christ-like figures that predate Jesus. Link shortened to Chris ate Jesus for some reason...
http://listverse.com/2009/04/13/10-chris...ate-jesus/

Good video to watch, if you want to know how common the Jesus story really is.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88GTUXvp-50

A list of biblical contradictions from the infallible word of Yahweh.
http://infidels.org/library/modern/jim_m...tions.html

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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 15, 2014 at 4:17 am
As good a description as any

Quote: Dominant: The person who has the power and control. The one in charge at all times. Also known as Master or Mistress, Domme (fem), Dom (male), The one with the duty of care to the person who is under their control. The boss, the God/Goddess, idol, revered one. The journey maker and limit pusher. The responsible and caring one (yes caring)!

submissive: The person handing over the power and control to the Dominant. The one obeying the orders, experiencing the journey at the hands of another, the one who serves and wishes to please the Dominant in whatever way the Dominant deems fit. AKA ‘sub’ or slave, maid, sissy or butler.

Top: In My experience more of a fetishist. Likes to be the one doing the ‘giving’ of BDSM activity but not necessarily in a controlling or powerful manner. Also likely to care about the limits and safety of the ‘bottom’ too of course!.

bottom: The one receiving the BDSM and fetish activities. Likes to hand over control but in My experience not in a servile manner. Likes the experience but not the servitude. Some bottoms like to have the control over what is done to them. This is often referred to as ‘topping from the bottom’.

Switch: Someone who like to experiment both sides of the coin according to their mood. Sometimes top sometimes bottom. Sometimes Dom(me) sometimes sub.

In essence being a dom / sub is something you are, whereas topping or bottoming is something you do. And in the best kink communities there is parity of esteem. Bdsm is about being honest about what you like, harder =/= better. If you can get the same kick from having your wrists held or your bottom spanked as someone else only gets with a full rope suspension kit and an anal hook smeared with wasabe, then good luck to you!
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Through passion, I gain strength.
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Through power, I gain victory.
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RE: Do You Consider BDSM Immoral?
January 15, 2014 at 10:11 am
People in BDSM may hear this all the time, but someone made a joke about the safe word people use. The comedian said their save word would be Oww.
Poe's Law: "Without a winking smiley or other blatant display of humor, it is impossible to create a parody of Fundamentalism that SOMEONE won't mistake for the real thing."

10 Christ-like figures that predate Jesus. Link shortened to Chris ate Jesus for some reason...
http://listverse.com/2009/04/13/10-chris...ate-jesus/

Good video to watch, if you want to know how common the Jesus story really is.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88GTUXvp-50

A list of biblical contradictions from the infallible word of Yahweh.
http://infidels.org/library/modern/jim_m...tions.html

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