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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 22, 2014 at 11:39 pm
(March 22, 2014 at 11:37 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: (March 22, 2014 at 11:31 pm)futilethewinds Wrote: I really wouldn't know. I do know that there doesn't seem to be a noticeable difference in the way men and women (straight, bi, or gay) kiss.
Oh wait, there is.
Every bi person (male or female) I've ever kissed went all in, even for the most casual/playful of kisses. I admire that. I hope I am the same way. Go big or go home. #yolo
That's because we've learned to be a lot more serious than rest of the queers make us out to be. We're rather vulnerable to slutshaming.
Who are you referring to when you say "rest of the queers"?
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How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 22, 2014 at 11:42 pm
(March 20, 2014 at 4:27 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: Right now, a lot, because I'm seeing someone who pushes my buttons (HARD, so to speak), but I'm not ready to jump into bed yet :)
Normally, about every other day.
Maybe you should get your fuck on before the carpal tunnel sets in?
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 22, 2014 at 11:45 pm
(March 22, 2014 at 11:39 pm)Thunder Cunt Wrote: (March 22, 2014 at 11:37 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: That's because we've learned to be a lot more serious than rest of the queers make us out to be. We're rather vulnerable to slutshaming.
Who are you referring to when you say "rest of the queers"?
The rest of the quiltbag community doesn't have a very high opinion of bi/pansexuals.
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 12:08 am
(March 22, 2014 at 11:37 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: That's because we've learned to be a lot more serious than rest of the queers make us out to be. We're rather vulnerable to slutshaming. Yeah, a lot of people think "bisexual" is synonymous with "greedy" and "slutty", and the media sure as hell doesn't help with that misconception.
And you know, "slutty" is actually just a pointless word, because humans are inherently slutty, it is part of human nature, probably because we come from chimps and bonobos, and bonobos have all kinds of sexual contact all the time. "Slut" should not even have a negative connotation, because it should be synonymous with the words "human" or "person."
I said on a girl's facebook status who was bi and talking about mutual dislike between bi girls and lesbians, I love bi girls, I just hate their boyfriends. I don't know if I'm perpetuating stereotypes or not by saying that, but every bi girl I know currently has a boyfriend, so I posted it for truth.
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 12:14 am
(March 23, 2014 at 12:08 am)futilethewinds Wrote: (March 22, 2014 at 11:37 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: That's because we've learned to be a lot more serious than rest of the queers make us out to be. We're rather vulnerable to slutshaming. Yeah, a lot of people think "bisexual" is synonymous with "greedy" and "slutty", and the media sure as hell doesn't help with that misconception.
And you know, "slutty" is actually just a pointless word, because humans are inherently slutty, it is part of human nature, probably because we come from chimps and bonobos, and bonobos have all kinds of sexual contact all the time. "Slut" should not even have a negative connotation, because it should be synonymous with the words "human" or "person."
I said on a girl's facebook status who was bi and talking about mutual dislike between bi girls and lesbians, I love bi girls, I just hate their boyfriends. I don't know if I'm perpetuating stereotypes or not by saying that, but every bi girl I know currently has a boyfriend, so I posted it for truth.
Sexually transmitted diseases are an epidemic however. There are potential life destroying consequences of acting out sexually.
Anyway, when when you say you masturbate on an almost daily basis that doesn't just mean you play with yourself daily. You finish the job right?
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 12:22 am
On average, I'd say two.
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 12:24 am
(March 23, 2014 at 12:08 am)futilethewinds Wrote: And you know, "slutty" is actually just a pointless word, because humans are inherently slutty, it is part of human nature, probably because we come from chimps and bonobos, and bonobos have all kinds of sexual contact all the time. "Slut" should not even have a negative connotation, because it should be synonymous with the words "human" or "person."
Yeah, I agree. I never understood the dislike of sluts, sluts are good people. They make the world a better place. Plus I think that "slut" happens to be the perfect gender opposite word for "stud."
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 12:26 am
(March 23, 2014 at 12:08 am)futilethewinds Wrote: (March 22, 2014 at 11:37 pm)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: That's because we've learned to be a lot more serious than rest of the queers make us out to be. We're rather vulnerable to slutshaming. Yeah, a lot of people think "bisexual" is synonymous with "greedy" and "slutty", and the media sure as hell doesn't help with that misconception.
And you know, "slutty" is actually just a pointless word, because humans are inherently slutty, it is part of human nature, probably because we come from chimps and bonobos, and bonobos have all kinds of sexual contact all the time. "Slut" should not even have a negative connotation, because it should be synonymous with the words "human" or "person."
I said on a girl's facebook status who was bi and talking about mutual dislike between bi girls and lesbians, I love bi girls, I just hate their boyfriends. I don't know if I'm perpetuating stereotypes or not by saying that, but every bi girl I know currently has a boyfriend, so I posted it for truth.
Hi bi girl without a boyfriend or girlfriend for that matter. Because I'd rather avoid GUG stereotype as well I'm refusing to date since my last break up. Flirt, well...
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 1:20 am
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(March 23, 2014 at 12:14 am)Thunder Cunt Wrote: Sexually transmitted diseases are an epidemic however. There are potential life destroying consequences of acting out sexually.
Anyway, when when you say you masturbate on an almost daily basis that doesn't just mean you play with yourself daily. You finish the job right? That is easily remedied by being a responsible slut. When there is a penis involved, put a condom on it unless it's definitely not going anywhere that diseases might be.
And if you're just not sure about your partner's history, put one on your finger if it's going where diseases might be or wear gloves, and use a dental dam if you're about to expose your tongue to a vagina where diseases might be.
Viola, no STDs ever for you. Statistically speaking, none for you ever if you are a woman who only ever has sexual contact with women your entire life, anyway.
(March 23, 2014 at 12:26 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: Hi bi girl without a boyfriend or girlfriend for that matter. Because I'd rather avoid GUG stereotype as well I'm refusing to date since my last break up. Flirt, well... Hey, since my first ever sexual experience with a woman took place in college, and so far I am still in college and still into women, I could be accused of being a LUG, too. Admittedly, that would be stupid, since I have never had a sexual experience with a man and may never do so.
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RE: How Often Do You Masturbate?
March 23, 2014 at 1:30 am
Oddly enough until I was 15 I thought I was a lesbian
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