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Poll: Theists, what's been experience with atheists been like here?
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I find 100% of posts addressed to me by atheists to be respectful.
5.00%
1 5.00%
I find around 75% of posts addressed to me by atheists to be respectful.
15.00%
3 15.00%
I find around 50% of posts addressed to me by atheists to be respectful.
15.00%
3 15.00%
I find around 25% of posts addressed to me by atheists to be respectful.
0%
0 0%
I have never had a respectful post addressed to me on these forums.
0%
0 0%
I myself am usually respectful toward atheists.
20.00%
4 20.00%
I myself am occasionally provocative toward atheists.
20.00%
4 20.00%
I myself am often provocative toward atheists.
5.00%
1 5.00%
I myself am occasionally disrespectful toward atheists.
5.00%
1 5.00%
I myself am usually disrespectful toward atheists.
0%
0 0%
I enjoy interacting with atheists.
15.00%
3 15.00%
It is more a duty than a joy interacting with atheists.
0%
0 0%
I generally do not enjoy interacting with atheists.
0%
0 0%
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Local theists, how do you feel about atheists?
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RE: Local theists, how do you feel about atheists?
Whateverist, I feel reluctant to generalize my AF experiences. Those I find belligerent or willfully ignorant are on my ignore list. That technical feature improves my experience greatly. Personally, I think the civility of discourse depends on which forum/thread I participate.

The philosophy forums seem to generate the most thoughtful and serious discussions. That said I think, the regulars tend to talk past each other. They have already spent considerable time studying and reflecting on their own beliefs and the alternatives. Sometimes the philosophically inclined, like myself, tend to push their debate partners into familiar categories and thereby miss novel ideas and subtleties. To some extent that is unavoidable since serious study demands that the student focus on a particular area, in my own case ancient and Medieval philosophy. Others focus on modern philosophy and much of the nomenclature between the two is different.

Other forums are more confrontational, particularly the one for Christianity, threads titled “Christians explain…”, those that attempt to disprove God’s present some kind of apparent contradiction or mocking a literal interpretation of Scripture. For some reason, atheists that should know better, ignore doctrinal differences and think every Christian must be a fundamentalist evangelical.

Personally, I find many common phrases directed at Christians and their beliefs to be particularly obnoxious. I’m not really offended, I’m a big-boy now, but I do think that anyone that uses terms like “sky daddy” or “zombie Jesus” to describe my Lord and Savior both immature and stupid. They are immature because they think they’re being clever when in fact they are just acting like jerks. And I think they are stupid because their juvenile caricatures of spiritual concepts stand between them and their personal growth.

But we all have our days and even the best of us act like asses some time, except for me. I'm always a pompous ass =-)

All that said, I know that many consider some of my firm (and oft repeated) beliefs about atheism ignorant and provocative. For example, I still think nihilism is the logical extreme of atheism, even though many atheists believe that they are not themselves nihilists. Personally I don’t think they have thought it through all the way for whatever reason, but haven’t pressed the issue recently except on threads devoted explicitly to meaning and significance.
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#12
RE: Local theists, how do you feel about atheists?
I missed this post yesterday, Chad. Your post is more eloquent than a response to any poll could be. Thanks.

I'm really tempted to consider your point about nihilism here but perhaps a thread in the atheism or philosophy sub forum would be more appropriate. And there, it is done.

http://atheistforums.org/thread-28956.html
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RE: Local theists, how do you feel about atheists?
(October 2, 2014 at 6:30 pm)Jenny A Wrote: Naw, don't blame maleness. I may be the one female you consider rude, but while many Christian males (not all here are polite) we have a couple rude Christian woman from time to time.

I think Rasetsu is right, it's often the complete disagreement that rankles as much as the tone.

I don't find disagreement irksome; matter of fact, I find a lot to learn from it when it's well-considered. What I dislike is when someone misstates my position, ignores what I've said, or gets rude with me. At that point, I have no compunctions about making change in the coin tendered.

For instance, Michael is unfailingly polite to me, and though we disagree about matters theological, I enjoy a back-and-forth with him because I come away richer for it -- and I try to give that feeling to him too.
My mileage varies according to the interlocutor.

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