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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 12:36 pm
I don't think some forms of discrimination constitute bigotry if it's for legitimate reasons like high incompatibility - However the fact someone had sex before meeting you has nothing to do with your relationship and does not prove in anyway anything about that person's character or personality. Furthermore I feel a deep underlying mentality of slut-shaming as said by becca.
Personally I would happily date anyone who is able to question their own beliefs if they still keep it in the end. What bugs me is not so much belief in the supernatural but a refusal to see different viewpoints - As long as people can think for themselves, whatever conclusion they may reach is acceptable as long as it doesn't break the law.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 12:45 pm
I'm curious as to why the OP has posted this on at least six different forums, at least four of which have not a goddamned thing to do with relationships.
Oh wait, I'm not. Obvious troll.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 12:48 pm
(April 21, 2015 at 12:45 pm)Cthulhu Dreaming Wrote: I'm curious as to why the OP has posted this on at least six different forums, at least four of which have not a goddamned thing to do with relationships.
Oh wait, I'm not. Obvious troll.
Given this information I for see a banhammer swinging soon?
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 12:52 pm
(April 21, 2015 at 12:30 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: (April 21, 2015 at 12:16 pm)Dystopia Wrote: People who want to be bigoted always need an excuse to do it. Everyone rationalizes their behaviour, including people who discriminate others and people who think they possess souls of dragons and are controlled by reptilians.
What the OP basically said trough a more complex literary style is that "I don't like my girlfriend having experiences with others before me because she must be pure otherwise she's a dirty slut".
I was called a bigot today for not wanting to date theists. True story.
That's ridiculous. Dating is not a frigging public service! Morons.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:00 pm
(April 21, 2015 at 12:52 pm)robvalue Wrote: (April 21, 2015 at 12:30 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: I was called a bigot today for not wanting to date theists. True story.
That's ridiculous. Dating is not a frigging public service! Morons.
I tried dating a theist once, never again. Well, a deist would be OK
Not enough nuance in the statement to definitively call Deidre a bigot.
Are you the kind of person who has long-term relationships where your values will definitely clash and mean something? I don't see that as discrimination - I wouldn't marry someone who was a social conservative. Or have a long-term relationship with them.
Are you the kind of person who just dates and fucks casually? I might say that them being a theist doesn't matter then. But that all depends on the context. I've had fun times with believers. But I wasn't looking to shack up with them either.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:03 pm
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:04 pm
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:14 pm
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:19 pm
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:19 pm
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