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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 6:23 pm
(April 21, 2015 at 12:52 pm)robvalue Wrote: I tried dating a theist once, never again. Well, a deist would be OK 
Do you know what's great about being with an atheist? They cry out YOUR name.
Sorry, I can't take this thread seriously anymore.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 6:23 pm
Perhaps not, but if you look at the bottom of the page at who's viewing this thread, his name has been on and off most of the day. And yet nothing from him? No contributions other than two posts? If this issue was as important to him as he feels it was, then he would be contributing far more than just two posts and lurking about all day when clearly, he's had the opportunity to stand up for himself or respond to what's being said... well I call bullshit on him.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 6:32 pm
(This post was last modified: April 21, 2015 at 6:36 pm by *Deidre*.)
(April 21, 2015 at 1:00 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: (April 21, 2015 at 12:52 pm)robvalue Wrote: That's ridiculous. Dating is not a frigging public service! Morons.
I tried dating a theist once, never again. Well, a deist would be OK
Not enough nuance in the statement to definitively call Deidre a bigot.
Are you the kind of person who has long-term relationships where your values will definitely clash and mean something? I don't see that as discrimination - I wouldn't marry someone who was a social conservative. Or have a long-term relationship with them.
Are you the kind of person who just dates and fucks casually? I might say that them being a theist doesn't matter then. But that all depends on the context. I've had fun times with believers. But I wasn't looking to shack up with them either.
While I'm not interested in the idea of marriage, I don't fuck around on a casual basis. So dating to me, means just that...getting to know someone, to see if there might be potential for it to go to another level.That level would mean sex, and exclusivity. What's important to note about my desire to no longer date theists, is that theists themselves are often more hard pressed when it comes to their partners' religious views. When I was a Christian, I dated atheists, but I know manyyyy Christians who can't even conceive of that notion. Honestly, I think it's important to want to be able to share one's worldview with another, and this doesn't mean two atheists will always agree on things, but when 'God' is added into the mix, it has the potential to shape the relationship in ways many people don't think about, when they first ''click'' with someone.
If that is bigotry, so be it. 
(April 21, 2015 at 12:52 pm)robvalue Wrote: (April 21, 2015 at 12:30 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: I was called a bigot today for not wanting to date theists. True story.
That's ridiculous. Dating is not a frigging public service! Morons.
I tried dating a theist once, never again. Well, a deist would be OK
My last stop recently with my own 'faith journey' was deism. lol While deism doesn't have a dogma per se, it still has a 'way' of looking at a higher power. I'm not repelled by the idea that a higher power could very well exist, but there's no evidence for one, so why bother ruminating about it. Deism does allow more freedom of thought, though.
OP? Where did you go? We want to know. 
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 7:52 pm
I wasn't getting at you, peach. I know you better than that. Just in case that wasn't clear.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 7:57 pm
(April 21, 2015 at 6:09 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: Meh. Hit and run doesn't necessarily get the ban hammer.
It is completely up to him.
Maybe he wants you to ban him .. just a little bit, the way Summer wants just a bit of spanking?
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 8:00 pm
...just a bit? You don't know me very well.
Especially if it's Steel spanking me. 
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 8:01 pm
Hey Steel is in hot demand. 'Fraid you'll have to take a number. He'll see you soon.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 8:10 pm
I can be a very good, patient girl.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 8:13 pm
Oh I think he'll like that. I've been meaning to work out a relationship as his pimp. You know, set up his 'appointment' book, take my cut, and screen all the girls ahead of time.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 9:52 pm
What the hell is going on here?
Do I like it? I think I like it.
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